Life Cycles XIV: Coming of Age by Susan Proto

Life Cycles XIV: Coming of Age
by Susan Proto ([email protected])

Category: MSR (marriage) and Walter/Maggie (marriage). Lots of MulderAngst, ScullyAngst, and even a little bit of MulderTorture thrown in for good measure! (YES! I do love ya, Vickie! <g>)

Rating: PG13 for language!

Spoilers: To be honest, I don't think there's any real spoilers at this point-my universe has kind of taken a life onto its own, but to play it safe, let's say through season four, and specifically, mention of a certain scene from "Kaddish."

Summary: Mulder chooses to take on a new challenge, but finds his past once again hinders him. He needs the help of his therapist, but more importantly, his family to help him succeed.

Archive: Yes.

Disclaimer: Fox Mulder, Dana, and Maggie Scully, as well as Walter Skinner belong to 10/13 productions and Chris Carter. Adam Mulder, Rabbi Ginsburg, and any other character you don't recognize are all mine. (Heck, if CC wants to borrow my characters, all he has to do is ask nicely! <g>)

Since I have learned to play nice in the sandbox, I am only borrowing CC's characters and promise to return them at the end of the story. Honest. I promise. Believe me. Please, because I couldn't afford to be sued on my salary.

Also of note is an interesting site called "Navigating the Bible." Pertinent information was found at this site, regarding Mulder's birth date.

Introduction: This is the next story in the series, though not a direct follow-up to number LC XIII. I would recommend reading the previous stories in the series, since there is some continuity (I hope there is at any rate!) regarding the characters and Mulder's newest journey; a journey I will be very familiar with come April 17, 1999! This is for my "baby boy", Daniel.

Oh Vickie, thank you so much for the feedback on this one. You are the best! Truly!

Feedback: Please! And to those who I have yet to respond to, I promise, once I get the report cards out of the box and actually record something on them, I will get back to you. I promise. Really. <Kicking real life back in the tush!>


Life Cycles XIV: Coming of Age


Part 1/6

Mulder picked up the phone and fingered the receiver tentatively.  He knew it
shouldn't be any big deal, but on the other hand, he thought it had the
potential to turn into more of a hassle than he'd want to deal with.

He punched in the recall button and then the number one.  He knew she'd be at
the other end, and while his heart warmed at the thought of speaking with his
Scully, he also wondered if he should simply forget about the whole thing.

As he listened to the phone ring, he realized he could count on his one hand
how many times he'd ditched his wife in the last six years or so since they'd
been married.  

He figured he was long overdue.

"Hello," she answered in the conventional manner.

"Scully, it's me," he replied in his usual manner.

It was always 'Scully' when he called her from the bureau; it was never Dana,
or his preferred, 'Dane.'  From the work place she was Scully.

"Hey, You.  What's up?"

"Nothing much.  It's quiet here  Too quiet.  I'm not used to this solo shit,
you know.  How's he doing?" 

He being their four year old son, Adam.  He'd excitedly  started nursery
school full time that past September, but the inevitable onslaught of colds
and sore throats began shortly thereafter.  This latest bout was a full
fledged case of the flu, and Scully felt it best to stay home with him, rather
than depend upon her mother. 

"He's coughing and crying, sneezing and crying, and sleeping and crying.
Wanna stay home with him tomorrow?" she asked only half jokingly.

"Oh, Dane, I'm sorry.  This is a tough one, huh?"

"Yeah, but easy compared to what the Goldfarb's went through with Jason," she
remarked, alluding to the cancer scare they all went through with the youngest
Goldfarb.

"I would say that had to be the understatement of  the year.  I still have
nightmares about it," he replied.

"I know, Mulder," she murmured knowingly.

"Yeah," he chuckled softly, "I guess you would be the one and only who would
know for sure.  Did I wake you up last night too?"

"Yes," she replied with only a hint of hesitation, "but I was only half
asleep.  I never sleep well when either of my Mulder men don't feel well.

"So," she continued, "when do we have the honor of having you join us for
dinner?"

This was the question he was dreading being asked.  He knew it shouldn't seem
like a big deal, but it was.  After all, she'd been home all day with a sick
child, and now he was planning on ditching her.  

Openly and knowingly, ditching her.  

And he felt like a fourteen karat gold heel for doing it.

But  he also felt if he didn't go through with it now, he might chicken out
and never do it.  He had to try.  He knew he had to at least look into it, for
his own peace of mind.

"Um, Dane?  I hate to do this to you, since I know you could probably use some
relief real soon, but I have some research to do before I can get home
tonight.  Don't bother to wait dinner for me, okay?  I should be home no later
than eight or so," he said, and then he added in an attempt to placate her,
"Listen, I'll stay home with Adam tomorrow, okay?"

"Wait a minute.  Research? What research?  For an X-file?"

"Well, it's not the usual fare, so I guess it could almost be classified as an
X-file," he said with a hint of a nervous chuckle.  "I'm gonna get moving on
this so I can get home to you and Adam, okay?"

"Mulder, you're not going out to do anything stupid, are you?" 

"I hope not," he mumbled.

"What?" 

"Nothing, Dane.  Look, it's no big deal.  Really.  I just have to look into
something.  I don't know if it'll pan out."

"Okay," she replied with some uneasiness.  "Hey, Mulder?  I love you, G-Man."

"Love you too, Dane.  I'll see you in a couple of hours, I promise.  I'll have
my cell on in case you need me for anything, 'kay?" and then he added,
"Everything is fine, Dane.  I promise you, everything is fine."

Which, of course, when ever it concerned Mulder, Dana knew meant quite the
opposite.

~~~~~

Temple Emanuel
Office of  Rabbi Gerry Ginsburg

Gerry looked at his watch one more time and sighed.  He had been surprised to
hear from his secretary that Fox Mulder made an appointment.  His secretary
gave no indication as to what the reason was, but whenever Fox Mulder was
concerned, it gave him pause.

The man certainly wasn't coming to see him for counseling, as Gerry already
knew Mulder had a private therapist, Dr. Karen Woods.  He hoped everything was
all right between Mulder and his lovely wife, Dana.  

And their little boy.  

He prayed all was well with him.  Gerry knew the sun rose and set on that
child to both of his parents.  It would be a horrible twist of fate if
something were wrong with him.

Everyone had already weathered the storm of the Goldfarb Family's difficulty
with young Jason, and Gerry knew Mulder played a direct role in the young
boy's recovery.  He hoped there were no complications with that situation.

But now he looked at his watch and saw it was almost fifteen minutes after the
appointed time.  Gerry considered the possibility Fox had changed his mind, or
was too wrapped up in his work at the FBI to call and cancel.  As he was just
about to accept either of those possible scenarios, Gerry heard a light
rapping on the door.

"Come in."

"Rabbi?" Mulder said tentatively as he walked into the office.  "I'm sorry I'm
late, but the traffic was horrendous.  Serves me right for actually leaving
the office on time."

"No problem, Fox.  Come, come. Sit down."  When he saw the confused look on
Mulder's face, Gerry chuckled and said, "Oh, sorry about that.  Just move that
pile over to where that other pile is.  There's never enough time in a year ,
much less a day for me to catch up on all of my reading."

Mulder did as he was directed and sat down.  

"So, Fox.  My secretary didn't give me any information as to the purpose of
this appointment.  What can I do for you?"

"Um, well, I wanted to talk to you about__."  Mulder bounced up out of the
seat.  "Look, this is a mistake.  I'm sorry, Rabbi, for taking up your time.
I gotta get home.  Adam's sick, and Dane's been stuck at home with him all
day.  I'll see you at__."

"__Fox!  Is Adam all right?  It's not serious, is it?" the Rabbi interrupted
with concern.  His mind flashed back all to well to Jason Goldfarb's illness.

"No, it's nothing serious.  Just the flu.  Since Adam's started nursery school
full time, he and his classmates have shared every germ known to mankind."

"Well, that's a relief.  So now, please, sit down, and talk to me.  Something
is obviously on your mind.  Maybe I can help.  I'd like to help if I can."
Gerry looked at Mulder intently, and practically willed him to return to the
waiting chair.

Mulder sat down, but almost gingerly, as if he was sitting on a hot seat.  In
Mulder's mind, it was a hot seat.  He didn't know if he had the nerve to
continue the conversation as he'd originally intended.  

The truth of it was, he felt foolish. 

Very, very foolish.

"Look, Rabbi, it's just I've realized how silly this whole idea of mine is,"
Mulder finally admitted.

"Why don't you let me be the judge of  that."

He stood up again and began to pace slowly about the room.  Since it wasn't a
very big room, it only took Mulder a few strides to go from end to end.
"Fox," Gerry pleaded, "talk to me."

Mulder stopped dead in his tracks and looked at the rabbi.  He opened his
mouth as if to speak, but then closed it.  Gerry decided to wait him out.
Several minutes passed by, when finally, Gerry was rewarded.

"It's something I've been thinking about for a long time.  I mean, it's
something I'd like to do, but I don't know if I can.  I mean, I really don't
know if I'm allowed to and if I am, I don't know if  _I_ can do it."

"What, Fox?"

"Rabbi, I'm embarrassed."

"Embarrassed?  What could you possibly want to do that would be an
embarrassment?  Tell me."

Mulder looked back at Gerry Ginsburg and wondered if he could admit his secret
desire, even to him.  He didn't know, but he finally figured the only way to
find out was to try.  

"Gerry, I want to have a Bar Mitzvah," he blurted out.  Mulder stood there and
waited for the man before him to burst into laughter over the absurdity of it
all.

After all, Mulder was thirty-eight years old.  His son was over four years
old.  What business would he have becoming a Bar Mitzvah?  The whole thing was
ridiculous, and if Gerry would just tell him so, he would be on his way home
before his cheeks became any more red than they already were.

"Fox!  This is a wonderful idea.  A noble goal!  Why in heaven's name would
you be embarrassed?" Gerry asked in amazement.

"Why?  Gerry, I'm thirty-eight years old for God's sake!"

"Exactly!" the Rabbi retorted.

"What?  I'm sorry, I don't underst__."

"It is for God's sake, Fox.  I think it's wonderful you've decided to study
for your Bar Mitzvah.  You know, Fox, there are many, many adults who study
for their Bar or Bat Mitzvah, because, for what ever reason, they did not
study as a child.  

"In fact," Gerry continued, "I have three women in an Adult Hebrew class this
year alone.  All of them are studying for their Bat Mitzvah."

"Yeah, women__," he mumbled.

"What, Fox?  You think adult classes are for only women?  Men can't lose their
way too?" he asked somberly.

"No, it's just that I'm a guy; I'm supposed__."  Mulder stopped short and drew
in a breath of the sudden flash of memory.

"___ It's never too late to start, Fox.  We can start anytime you'd like.
How's your Hebrew?"

"Hebrew?  I don't read Hebrew.  I mean, I used to, when I was a kid, but I
don't remember any of it," Mulder replied somewhat dazed by the suddenness of
Gerry's planning.

"Nothing?"

Mulder remembered back to the NYC investigation of the Golem.  He recalled
picking up the sepher yetzirah and wincing as the NYC Rabbi tried to explain
the words on the page.  He couldn't read any of it.  He felt so guilty in
having to admit he couldn't read the ancient language.

The strange thing about it was, at one time, he could.  He had been actually
quite adept at reading Hebrew.  He remembered he'd tackled it as if it were
some kind of secret code, and when he'd taken that tact, it had seemed fun to
him.  It was a puzzle he had needed to solve, and solve it he did.  He had
felt so confident when the Rabbi gave him his Haftorah to study in Trope
class.

"No, not since I'd dropped out of  Trope class," he murmured in memory.  

"Trope?  Fox, you were taking a Bar Mitzvah class?.   So, nu, what happened?"
he asked curiously.

Mulder closed his eyes.  The question was innocent enough, but it certainly
didn't take the sting away from the hurt and pain he felt in recalling the
answer.  "I'd begun the class in September of '73.  My sister was taken that
November.  I stopped going to class after that.  I stopped going to Temple
too."

"I'm sorry for that, Fox. You could have used the faith and support of the
Temple."

"Yeah, well, it wasn't exactly my choice, Rabbi."

"No, I guess not.  But Fox, if you were in a Trope Class, that must mean you
knew how to read Hebrew, no?" 

"I did, back then, but I can't now.  I mean, I was actually pretty good at it,
since I've got a pretty good memory and was able to picture the symbols in my
head.   It wasn't hard for me to decode it at all.  

"But ever since Sam was taken __." Mulder 's voice drifted off a bit before he
continued.  "Well, let's just say, my memory has always been a little hazy
about experiences which happened around the time of Sam's abduction."

"Well, then, I guess we'll need to start from the beginning, though I suspect
once you begin, your ability to read will come back to you," Gerry concluded.
"When do you want to begin?"

"I, I don't know."

"Well, it's only ten after seven. How about we begin right now?" the rabbi
encouraged.

"Now?  You mean right now?"  Mulder asked anxiously.  This was something he'd
decided a while ago he really wanted, but he wasn't sure if the journey he'd
need to get there was going to be worth it.

"How about we make it a mini lesson tonight.  Fifteen minutes, that's all
we'll do tonight.  Just to get your feet wet, so to speak?" the rabbi cajoled.

"Fifteen minutes__?  I do have to go home soon, Rabbi__.  Fifteen minutes?"

"Yes, fifteen minutes.  Sit.  Come sit," he directed and then instructed, "No,
Fox, come sit here, by me.  It'll be easier to see the text."

As Fox moved over and sat directly next to Gerry, the rabbi opened a drawer
and pulled out some sheets of paper with writing on it.  

"Okay, let's see if any of this comes back to you, okay?" he asked.

Mulder sat stiffly while Gerry laid the sheet of paper before him.  It had
several Hebrew letters on it, but Mulder didn't have a clue as to what they
meant.

In fact, the more he tried to remember what the symbols meant, the more
frustrated and upset he became.  Only minutes passed, and he found himself
hyperventilating.

"God, Gerry, I'm sorry.  I can't do this.  I don't know why, but I can't!" he
cried out in between gasps for air.

"Fox, it's all right.  Shh, it's all right.  Sit down.  Come.  Sit."

Mulder looked back at the rabbi and felt the redness creeping up from his neck
to his cheeks.  He was mortified with embarrassment.  Mulder had no idea as to
why he'd reacted the way he did, but suffice it to say, he felt completely
humiliated.

He looked at Rabbi Gerry with a sense of helplessness.  This was yet another
missing puzzle piece in his life he couldn't replace easily.   Mulder finally
sat down again,  leaned over, and placed his head in his hands.  Gerry quietly
waited for his pupil to calm down and regain a sense of control.  

Mulder finally broke the silence and whispered, "I thought I wanted this."

"And now you don't?" asked Gerry.

"No, I mean, yes__.  Shit, I don't know what the hell I mean," replied a very
flustered Mulder.  "Oh, God, Gerry.  Excuse me.  I didn't mean__."

"It's okay, Fox.   These walls have heard a few choice words come from my
mouth too," he comforted.   "Now, what do we do to help you?"

"I don't know."

"Fox, have you spoken to Dana about this?"

"NO!" Mulder cried out more loudly than he'd intended.  "Rabbi, I'm sorry.   I
didn't mean to yell, it's just that I hadn't told Dane about my plans
regarding this, in case __, well, just in case __."

"__In case it didn't work out," Gerry concluded for his distressed student.
"So, now you have your out.  You don't have to go through with it, which is
probably just as well, since you were obviously not ready to make a commitment
to learning Torah anyway," he baited.

Which Mulder of course took, hook, line, and sinker.

"Rabbi, how could you say that?  I didn't have to come here, you know.  I
chose to come here.  I've been thinking about this ever since Adam was born.
Do you really think I'd make a decision like this lightly?  I really, really
want to do this."

"Exactly my point.  Now, what do we do to help you overcome this mental block
so you can be a Bar Mitzvah?" Gerry asked rather smugly.

"Why do I have a feeling I was just set up?" Mulder asked a bit sheepishly.

"Because you were?"  Mulder nodded in acknowledgment and Gerry then asked,
"Fox, if you don't want to speak with Dana about this yet, will you speak with
Dr. Woods?"

Karen Woods has been Mulder's private therapist for about the last three years
or so.  Initially, he'd been attending sessions with her on an almost daily
basis.  She'd helped him overcome some emotional hurdles which had threatened
to permanently debilitate him when his young son had gone missing a couple of
years back.  Eventually, the sessions were reduced to weekly, then monthly,
and now, they were pretty much on an as needed basis.

Mulder had learned how to deal with many of the emotional traumas of his
childhood, and was well on his way to becoming a whole man.  Only now, there
was yet another obstacle in his path, and he didn't understand exactly what it
was.

"I guess I should call her.  Damn, I haven't had to meet with her since last
Passover.  Look, I've got to get going.  Dane's gonna have my head if I don't
get home and give her a break from Adam and his flu bug.  Thanks, Rabbi.
Look, I'm sorry I wasted your time."

"Fox Mulder, you did not waste my time!" he admonished.  "You will make the
phone call, yes?"

"I will call Karen Woods," he said,  but when he saw Gerry's eyebrow pop up,
Mulder chuckled  and reiterated, "Yes, I promise!  I'll call Dr. Woods."

The two men shook hands and Mulder walked out of the office.  Gerry sat in
wonderment over what demons lived in Fox Mulder's mind that could prevent
Mulder from taking a step which had, and obviously still has, special meaning
to him.  The rabbi sat and shook his head in frustration and dismay.  He hoped
the younger man would make the call, as he'd promised.

He prayed that he would.

~~~~~

Mulder walked through the door only a few minutes after eight and called out
to his family.  "Anybody home?"

"SHHH!" Dana cried out in a stage whisper.  "I think he's finally down for the
count, and I don't need you waking him up."

"Sorry.  I was hoping to see him."

"Oh, don't worry, you'll have all day with him tomorrow.  Remember?" she
retorted.

"Yeah, I remember," he grinned as he pulled his beautiful wife and partner to
him.  "I'm sorry you got stuck with infirmary duty all day and night.
Anything I can do for you now to make it up to you?"

"Did you eat?"  When he shook his head, she pulled him to the small kitchen
and led him to the counter.  "Sit.  I kept some food warming for you.  You can
eat while you tell me what you were researching."

He swallowed hard.  He really hadn't planned on telling Dana about his plans
for a Bar Mitzvah just yet.  He wasn't sure why he was uncomfortable telling
her.  Perhaps it was because of his own discomfort.  He recalled the Rabbi's
words; he had his out.  Perhaps he did want to have an escape valve, and if he
told Scully it would really be a way of making a firm commitment to the plan.

Was he ready to commit to it?

He wanted to.  Rationally he knew he wanted to.  

Emotionally, he had no idea if he was ready to.

Just as she laid the plate of spaghetti and meatballs on the table, they both
heard a loud cry of distress coming from Adam's room.  Mulder jumped up and
held up his hand toward Scully.  "Go relax.  My turn.  I'll warm it up in the
microwave later."

He leaned over and kissed his wife on the forehead, and then walked towards
his son's room.  As he entered his room, he said a silent prayer of thanks for
the reprieve.

~~~~~

By the time Mulder left Adam, having read to him three Dr. Seuss books as well
as Good Night, Moon, three times, Scully had washed up and collapsed into bed.
She was lightly snoring when Mulder finally joined her.  He smiled at the
notion of his Scully snoring.  If he ever told her she snored, he could just
hear her accusing him of telling bold-faced lies.

So, like the good (and smart) husband he was, he never told her.  Besides, if
he did, she might do something about it, and he really didn't want her to
stop.  He found it very comforting to have an auditory reminder of her
presence in his life.  In his bed.  By his side.  

~~~~~

Adam woke Mulder up twice in the middle of the night.   The first time was
around two o'clock.  Adam tried to connive another Dr. Seuss reading, which
did not end in success.  The second time occurred around four o'clock and was
due to a spiking fever.  Scully had been all ready to jump into Mommy-Doctor
mode, but Mulder gently pushed her back down.  He was taking over night duty
since she was the one going into the office later that day.

In order to reduce the fever, Mulder sponged his young son down with a
lukewarm washcloth.  He also administered some children's Motrin, which was
what the pediatrician had recommended when Adam's fever spiked above 102.
He'd been able to get it down to 103 from the 104 it was when he'd first heard
his son's cries of distress.

The first time Adam had spiked a fever, Mulder had gone into a complete state
of panic.  He feared the child would have to be taken to the hospital, and as
he held too many horrendous memories of being in a hospital himself, he didn't
want to subject his baby to one.  Scully managed to remain the same, level
headed person she always was, and called the pediatrician.

She'd recommended the procedure he'd gone through earlier that morning.  He'd
become quite a pro at managing Adam's spiking fevers.  He even managed to get
through the occasional febrile seizure Adam had without having a seizure
himself.

So when the alarm clock rang, Mulder was very grateful it was for Scully and
not him.  He didn't think he could handle the office after having only gone to
sleep a couple of hours before.  Mulder hit the snooze alarm for his wife, and
sank back into a deep sleep.  

~~~~~

He felt a gentle kiss on his lips and smiled.  He opened his eyes slowly and
saw Scully standing before him, fully dressed, and ready to go.  

"How is he?" Mulder asked, knowing full well Scully wouldn't go anywhere
without first checking on their son.

"His head is as cool as a cucumber," she replied lightly.  "How long were you
up with him?"

"A bit," he replied cryptically.

"That long," she acknowledged.

"Yeah.  Should I call the doctor again if he's still running a fever?" he
asked.

"Maybe.  Let's see how he does today.  I'll call you later this morning,
'kay?" 

"Mmm-hmmm.  C'mere," he said, as he pulled her onto him for a long, delicious
kiss.

However, just as he was about to deepen the kiss, she cried out, "No!" and
scrambled off the bed quickly.  Scully then ran into the bathroom, dry heaving
all the way.

"Dane?!" Mulder called out in alarm.  "Dane, you okay?"

A few moments passed before Scully could catch her breath.  "Yeah, Mulder.
I'm fine."

"Maybe you should stay home too, Dane."

"No, I'm all right now.  I'm sorry, Mulder.  I don't know what came over me.
My stomach felt like it was ready to do the cha cha.."

"Dane, maybe you've caught Adam's flu?  Doncha think__," he began.

"__No way, G-Man.  I am going to escape being a wet nurse for a few hours if
it kills me!" she said with a wry smile.

"That's what I'm afraid of, Scully," Mulder cautioned.

Scully smiled at his use of her maiden name.  When ever Mulder was worried
about her, he always reverted back to calling her Scully.  It was one of
Mulder's transparencies which endeared him to her heart.

"I'm fine," she said, "really.  And I am going to work.  Have fun with Adam!"
And Scully practically ran out of the house at just about the same time Mulder
heard the call of the wild, otherwise known as their son.

~~~~~

Scully searched the office high and low.  She looked for any kind of a file
that would require extra research, and she was damned if she knew what it
could have been.   She sat down at his computer next and brought up his
calendar to see if there was any hints of where he might have gone the
previous evening.

On the calendar, Mulder had made a notation; 'just do it.'  Either her husband
had watched one too many Nike commercials, or he had something to hide.
"Research my ass," she muttered aloud.  "Where the hell were you, Mulder?"  

It was at that moment the wave of nausea swept over her again, and Scully ran
as quickly as she could to the restroom.

~~~~~

Meanwhile, all morning long, Mulder attempted to entertain his cranky, ill
child.  He read stories, brought him juice, and fed him applesauce to ease the
medication down more easily.  By ten thirty, he was already exhausted.  He
wondered how Scully managed the whole day and evening, yesterday.  It made him
feel all the more guilty for ditching Scully last night.  

At the same time, he held a continuous debate in his head over what he should
do with regards to his desire to have a Bar Mitzvah.  He knew there was an
emptiness he wanted to fill from his own childhood in anticipation of his own
child's religious education.  Adam was going to soon begin the monthly, Sunday
morning preschool program at the temple, and Mulder wanted to make sure his
own religious education was more complete.

He knew he had to call Karen Woods if he wanted to go through with his plans
for the Bar Mitzvah.  He knew that without her help, he would never be able to
reconcile those memories he made himself forget.

He wondered if it was worth the pain he was sure remembering the past would
cause him.  He looked at his son.

He picked up the phone and dialed number six on the speed dial.  Mulder smiled
to himself as he listened to the ringing on the other end.  The fact that the
doctor's phone number was lowered from number two to number six was a
testament to just how much he'd improved.

It scared him to think things might change.

It scared him to think things might not.

"Hello, Karen?  It's Fox  Mulder.  I think I need to talk."

~~~~~
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Life Cycles XIV:  Coming of Age
by Susan Proto  ([email protected])

Disclaimers in Part 1

Part 2/6

Scully returned home from the bureau later than she'd anticipated and found
Adam had already been fed.  She walked over to him and planted a nice mushy
kiss on his forehead as he laid in Mommy and Daddy's Big Bed  and watched the
latest Lion King video.  

She then walked into the dining room to discover her husband had lovingly
prepared a full course meal of half a grapefruit, spinach and mushroom salad,
(which of course showed how much Mulder _really_ loved Scully, since he didn't
even like to touch the fungi, much less eat them,)  London Broil, baked
potato, and broccoli.  

To which Scully smiled in appreciation, said, "Thanks, but___," and then
promptly ran into the bathroom to puke her guts up.

Mulder followed her into the bathroom and called out to her in a worried
voice, "Dane?  You okay?"

"Yeah, Mulder," she called back out, in between retching and gasping, "I'm
fine."

When he asked if there was anything he could do for her, Scully told Mulder to
just give her a few minutes. He shook his head in slight frustration and
returned to the kitchen.  He began wrapping up the food to put it in the
fridge for safe keeping.  He hoped  Dana would feel better by tomorrow.

"Hey, whatcha doin' G-Man?" asked a slightly disheveled looking Scully.

Mulder looked up slightly startled and explained what he thought was rather
obvious, "I'm putting the food back in the fridge."

"Why?"

"Why?" he asked incredulously.  "Dane, you walked into the house and promptly
began upchucking your guts not fifteen minutes ago, that's why.

"Well, that was then, and now is now, and now, I'm hungry!  Hey, Mulder, I'm
working on an empty stomach here, ya know?" she grinned.  "Okay, now, how's
Adam?  I assume his fever didn't spike this afternoon 'cause I didn't hear
from you."

"No, it didn't spike as high as last night, but it did get up to 102.5.  Poor
kid is really whipped from this," Mulder said as he unwrapped the food.  He
then looked directly at Scully and asked, "And what about you?  Dane, you
threw up twice today, that I know of."  

Scully blushed slightly at Mulder's last remark as she remembered her first
and second visit to the restroom at the bureau this morning.  "Oh Mulder, I
probably caught a little bit of Adam's bug, but I'll be fine.  I had my flu
shot this year, so if  I do have it, I'm sure it'll be a very mild case. 

"Now listen here, G-Man.  Bring on that food or you're going to see just what
kind of a shot I really am!" she teased.

"Yes Ma'am!" he replied in kind, "just don't shoot!"

~~~~~

Scully got to read the three different Dr. Seuss books tonight as well as the
repeat renditions of Goodnight, Moon.  By the time she'd finally settled Adam
into his own bed, Mulder had hunkered down in the "Big Bed" and was snoring
heavily.

Scully giggled as she walked over to give her husband a light kiss on his open
mouth.  "You're gonna catch flies, Fox Mulder!"  She gently pushed up Mulder's
chin in an attempt to close his mouth a little, and it had the desired effect.

At least temporarily.  Scully, however, would not change a thing.  She knew if
she'd ever mention to Mulder he "sawed wood" with the best of them, he'd be
terribly insulted and, to the best of his ability, "deny everything."  So,
rather than risk any hurt or embarrassed feelings, Scully kept Mulder's nasal
symphony her own little secret.

Besides, if she mentioned it, there was the possibility he might actually do
something about it, and the last thing Scully wanted to do was quell a
symphony.

~~~~~

The following day, Mulder asked Scully to do a split shift with him in the
baby sitting department.  He'd made an appointment with Karen Woods for that
afternoon and  hadn't wanted to cancel it.  He  knew he had to find a way to
work out his latest, for lack of a better term, 'phobia' if he was to go
through with his plans for the Bar Mitzvah.

When Scully asked him why, he decided not to lie and admitted he'd made an
appointment with Dr. Woods.

"Karen Woods?" she echoed.

"Yeah, Dane."

Scully desperately wanted to know what it was that precipitated his decision
to see the therapist, but she also knew she would not ask.  They'd made a pact
long ago, when Mulder first agreed to go through with the therapy sessions,
that what ever he wanted, or more importantly, needed, to discuss with Dr.
Woods would remain private until Mulder felt comfortable enough to share it
with her.

Not that she wasn't proud of Mulder for seeking help when he felt he needed
it; it had taken quite a lot for Mulder to learn for himself that admitting he
needed help was half the battle.  Once he'd realized Karen Woods presented an
opportunity to help him heal himself, he was no longer as embarrassed or self-
conscious about keeping his appointments.

Scully saw he was not going to open up any further about the appointment, so
she merely nodded her head, and the subject was dropped.  Scully left early
that morning in order to get the paper work she'd started yesterday, but
hadn't quite finished due to her unexpected bouts of nausea.  

Upon her arrival at the bureau, she did a quick scan around their office.
Scully wanted to see if there were any files or memos that would have caused
Mulder to become unduly stressed.  He'd been late coming home the other night,
and now he had an appointment with Karen Woods.  

This was  a good thing.   And, in her heart of hearts, Scully knew this.

So why did she feel so worried about this particular appointment?
~~~~~

Mulder knew Scully was concerned.  When she'd arrived home a little after one
o'clock to take over the afternoon shift for baby sitting, her face showed
little expression.  Mulder knew that was Scully's way of holding her feelings
together.

He knew he could have easily allayed her uneasiness by simply telling her why
he needed to see Karen, but he wasn't ready.  He wasn't sure he could handle
going through with the whole Bar Mitzvah ritual.

No.  He realized he was lying to himself.  

He wanted to go through the Bar Mitzvah ritual. What he wasn't so sure about
was dredging up the memories which apparently were hindering his plans. Mulder
remembered there was a time he could read Hebrew fluently.  

Yes.  Fluently.

And now he couldn't.  And he wasn't sure why.  And he didn't know if he was up
to finding out.  The only thing he knew was he felt a fear he hadn't felt
since last Passover.

~~~~~

"Hey, Mulder, long time no see," greeted Dr. Karen Woods lightly.  

"Hi, Karen," returned Mulder.  "Yeah, it's been, what?  Six months or so?"

"Appears to be.  Okay, so what do I owe the honor of your company today?" she
asked casually.

"Oh, umm, just checking in, that's all."

"Right, and  Hillary Clinton is going to nominate Bill for husband of the
year," she retorted.  "Cut the bullshit, Mulder.  What's up?"

"I__, I wanna know why I can't read Hebrew anymore," he answered tentatively.

"Of course you do," Karen said dryly.  ''Mulder, would you tell me what the
hell this one's all about?  Please."

"I'm sorry, Karen.  I not only expect you to cure me of my mind's ills, I
guess I expect you to read it as well."

Karen chuckled at the comment and remarked, "Mulder, the day I'm able to read
that mind of yours, I'll probably be ready for a custom made straight jacket
of my own.  Okay, enough procrastinating, Fox Mulder, and spill it.  What
brings you here?"

He sighed, opened his mouth, and then sighed deeply again.  

"Mulder,'' Dr. Woods said in a warning tone.

"Okay, okay.  I went to see Gerry Ginsburg about the possibility of getting
Bar Mitzvah'd.  Only I can't read the Hebrew, and I need to find out why I
can't so I can decide if I want to really go through with it."

"Mulder, I need a few holes filled in here.  First, you were never a Bar
Mitzvah?"

"No.  I stopped going to class right after Sam's abduction," he explained.

"Okay, so might that explain why you can't read Hebrew?  I mean, you didn't go
to school, right?" Dr. Woods asked in a bit of confusion.

"No, it doesn't.  I was twelve when Sam was taken., so I'd attended Hebrew
School for about six years prior that.  Karen, I was able to read Hebrew
fluently before I stopped going to class.  And even if I'd forgotten every
last bit because of my lack of schooling, I don't think my lack of education
would be the reason behind the full blown anxiety attack I had when I'd
attempted to read a few letters."

"Describe what happened," she prodded.

"I looked at this little worksheet Gerry had pulled out, and I thought my
heart was going to explode in my chest.  I don't know why.  I realize there's
a reason for my reaction, but I don't know what it is, and I ___."  It was at
this point Mulder paused.

"What, Mulder?" Karen asked gently.  "What do you want to accomplish with this
session?"

"I want to know what happened; what _he_ did to make me afraid to look at a
language which represents a part of who I am," he responded softly.

"'He' meaning your father?"  Mulder nodded in response.  "Well, we could try
the regression therapy," Dr. Woods suggested.

"I don't think so," he began.

"But you've been a good candidate for this type of therapy in the past,
Mulder, and it would be the most efficient method of finding the cause for
your anxiety," Karen interjected.

"I know, but I need Scully to be here when I do that, and I'm not quite ready
for her to know about this yet," he explained.

"Dana is unaware of this latest crisis?"

"It's not a crisis.  I mean it's not a life or death situation, it's just
something that's getting in the way of something I've been thinking about for
a long time."

"How long, Mulder?  How long have you been thinking about being Bar
Mitzvah'd?"

"Ever since Adam was born, I guess.  I knew I wanted him to have a better
understanding of  the part of him that is Jewish.   I don't even know for sure
he'll be allowed to become a Bar Mitzvah, since technically he's not Jewish.
But me__,  I mean, I _am_ Jewish, and I never got the chance ___.  I guess you
could say I've thinking seriously about it for the last four years or so." 

"That's a long time to be mulling over something," Karen responded
thoughtfully.

"I tend to hang onto things for quite a while, Karen."

"I've noticed," she chuckled.  "I've noticed.  Okay, so let's get down to
work.  Tell me what you remember of your last time in class."

Mulder took a deep breath and tried to recall the past.  His brow furrowed as
he licked his lower lip in a concentrated effort to recollect memories that
had stayed hidden for a very long time.

"I remember getting ready to go to class and then running to the car."

"Running?"

"Yeah," he confirmed in a somewhat surprised tone. "I was running."

"Were you late for class?" asked the doctor.

"Maybe__.  I guess__.  I don't know."

"Who was taking you to school?" she asked, purposely going down a different
path.

"Mom."

"You had no problem remembering that."

"No question about it, since Mom always drove me to Hebrew School.  Dad didn't
play a part in that aspect of my education," Mulder explained in a cool tone.

"Okay, so you remember running to the car.  Where was your Mom?" Karen probed.

"My mom?  She __, she was running too."

"What was she saying, Fox?" Karen asked, purposely using his given name.
Karen Woods had discovered there were times when her purposeful use of Fox 's
first name actually acted as a catalyst in retrieving his memories.

"She was saying,  'Get in the car.  Hurry, Fox.  Get into the car.'"

"Was she worried about you being late for class?"

"I don't think so.  I don't know.  Damn it, Karen, I don't remember!" he said,
more agitated than when he'd begun.

"Okay, Mulder, let's take a break."  Karen Woods knew it wasn't that Fox
Mulder didn't remember; the problem was he didn't want to remember.  She knew
it would take time to help her patient to retrieve these particular memories.
Dr. Woods could only imagine what those memories were, since anything which
had to do with his parents usually involved some incident which traumatized
the young Fox.

"Karen, can we pick this up the next time.  I__, I need to think about this
some more."

"Mulder, may I make a suggestion?"  Upon seeing him nod, she continued, "Tell
Dana.  You know you've always had more success in dealing with these things
when Dana was aware of the situation."

"Yeah, well I'll take that under advisement, okay?  I gotta get going.  Adam's
been down for the count with the flu, and I think Dane has it too.  She's been
throwing her guts up morning and night, and I don't want to leave either one
of them for too long."

"Okay, but I expect to see you by next week, same time.  Get it?"
she questioned.

"Yeah.  I'll call you."

"Mulder," she cautioned, "don't let this fester inside of you.  You know it's
something from your past that's going to bug the shit out of you, so you might
as well deal with it and move on.  Please.  Promise me you won't let this eat
away at you."

''I'll call you for confirmation soon, Karen."

"If you don't call me, I will call you," she said as he began to roll his eyes
in disbelief, "and you know damn well I'll follow up on this and call you; at
work, at home, on your cell phone, in the john__."

"Okay, okay.  I promise.  I will follow up like a big boy.  Happy?" he asked
sarcastically.

"Oh joy.  Can you see how happy I am?" she replied in kind.  As she stood to
walk him out, Dr. Woods softened her tone and said kindly, "Mulder, you know
how this works with you sometimes.  You open a window onto these memories of
yours, and the whole damned roof caves in on you.  If you start having
nightmares or more anxiety attacks, you call me.

"Anytime, Mulder.  Morning, noon, or night.  Got that?" she asked.

"Got it.  And Karen?"  She looked at him with eyes that already anticipated
what his next words were going to be.  "Thanks.''

"Anytime, Mulder," she said as she squeezed his hand.  Then, to add just the
right note of levity to the moment, she added, "And my bill will be in the
mail in about thirty-two seconds, okay?"

~~~~~

Mulder walked into the townhouse and noticed how quiet it was.  He called out
softly, on the off chance Adam was sleeping.  "Dane?  Dane, you here?"

"Shhhh, Daddy.  Mommy's sleeping," called out a small voice.

"Adam?  Where's Mommy?" Mulder asked, trying to keep the anxiety out of his
voice.  He knew Scully would never purposely fall asleep if she knew Adam was
sick.

"In the big bed."

Mulder quickly went into the master bedroom and saw Scully curled up on their
"big bed."  He walked quietly up to her and gently put his hand to her
forehead to check for a fever.  She, to his relief, felt cool to the touch,
but it still didn't explain the unscheduled nap.

~~~~~

Scully felt the gentle hand on her forehead and began to stir in her sleep.
She hadn't intended on falling asleep, but her body simply refused to stay
awake for a moment longer.  She told Adam she was going to shut her eyes for a
few minutes and directed him to play quietly on the floor by her bed.

She opened her eyes, smiled at Mulder, and then looked at the clock on the
night table. "Ohmigod!" she gasped in horror when she noted that rather than a
few minutes, almost two hours had passed.

"Adam?!" she cried out anxiously.

"Adam's fine, Dane, but I'm worried as hell about you.  I've never known you
to fall asleep in the middle of the day."

"I just felt a little sleepy, Mulder.  I'm fine.  Really," she replied in a
slightly irritated tone.  She rose from the bed, unfortunately, a bit too
quickly.  "Oh God!" she cried out as she brought her hand to her mouth.

"Dane?!"

Scully jumped out of the bed as quickly as she dared and ran into the
bathroom.  Adam watched his mother as she retched, and he became frightened.

"Mommy?" he called out in alarm, "Mommy?!"  Adam began to cry when Scully
could do nothing more than run by him in order to get to the bathroom in time.

Mulder bent down to pick up his son.  "It's okay, Adam.  Mommy's fine."  He
repeated the words over and over, like a mantra, in a small attempt to
convince not only his small son of their veracity, but himself as well.
~~~~~
End of Part 2/6


Life Cycles XIV:  Coming of Age
by Susan Proto ([email protected])

Disclaimers in Part 1

Part 3/6

She felt horrible.  Scully figured she'd caught the worst case of flu in the
history of the modern era.  But when Mulder insisted she go to the doctor's
office for a checkup, she argued it was a ridiculous idea.  There was
absolutely nothing  that could be medically done for the flu other than to do
one's best to relieve the symptoms.  There were no antibiotics or magic pills
that would make it go away.

Now, if only it were possible to make Mulder go away.  He was doing his
petulant act, and it was getting on Scully's nerves.  She felt like hell, and
the last thing she wanted was his hovering.

"Mulder, please. Let me just go back to sleep. You watch over Adam, okay?  I'm
sure I'll feel a hundred per cent better after I've napped," she insisted. 

"But Scully," he protested.

"Oh for crying out loud, Mulder, enough already!" she demanded.  "I'm going
back to sleep."

Mulder left the room and shut the door behind him.  He sighed deeply, then
went to check up on their son.

~~~~~

Adam was obviously beginning to feel more like himself.  He was playing
quietly with his small toy action figures.  The newest incarnation of Mutant
Ninja Turtles graced their carpet, and Adam had them practice every karate
kick and chop his four and a half year old mind could come up with.  

Mulder smiled as he stealthily watched Adam play.  Mulder remembered back to
his own days of playing with GI Joe (and not the six inch version, either.  He
had the sixteen inch 'real' GI Joe.  Mulder mused over what became of his
childhood toys.  

He wondered if his mother had packed them away for safe keeping, or if she'd
given them away to the Salvation Army.  He suspected once Sam had been taken,
everything which reminded his parents of the times they had with his sister
was packed up and taken away.  

The thought that his childhood was so easily packed up and shipped away made
Mulder a little sad.

As he watched Adam play, Mulder remembered how he, himself, played quietly on
his own while his mother watched.  His father rarely watched him, as he was
frequently away on business trips.  However, Mulder remembered his mother
keeping an eye on him as he played.  

Then his mother gave birth to Samantha, and soon the play included his baby
sister.  Mulder considered the thought of Adam playing big brother to a
younger sibling, and then quickly erased the thought.  As much as Mulder
wanted to have another child, he knew Scully felt her work at the bureau was
also important.

He knew Scully loved Adam with all of her heart, but he also realized she
loved her work.   It wasn't fair to expect her to take another maternity leave
of absence from her job.  He didn't have the right to expect her to want
another child.

A brother.

A sister.

As much as he wanted it for Adam. 

And for himself too.

~~~~~

Scully woke up and realized her throat was thoroughly parched.  She looked at
the clock and noted she'd been asleep for about an hour and a half.  She
climbed out of bed and walked out of the bedroom.

As she entered the living room, Scully heard the tail end of a telephone
conversation.   She wasn't sure with whom Mulder was talking, and she
concentrated more in an innocent attempt to find out.

Well, perhaps not so innocent.  Scully was still a little upset over the fact
Mulder was seeing Karen Woods again and had chosen not to discuss the reason
why with her.  Plus, there was the mysterious appointment from the other
night.

Scully began to berate herself, because she was well aware of  the foolish
thoughts which crept into her brain.  There was no way.  It was absolutely
absurd.  Scully knew Mulder loved her and Adam more than anything in the
world.

So what would make Scully even consider the notion her husband was having an
affair?

He'd ditched her in the past.  Why did she feel so suspicious of his
propensity to ditch her now?

~~~~~

"Okay.  Listen, I don't know if I can make it tomorrow night.  It depends how
Dana is feeling.

"Yeah, she seems to have caught a touch of Adam's flu.

"No, I just want to make sure she'll be well enough to care for herself and
Adam, that's all.  

"No, I do want to see you.  I do.  I just don't know if__."

"__MMMM-mmm," Scully cleared her throat, and Mulder quickly looked up at her.
All Scully could think of as she observed her husband was he had the wild eyed
look of a deer caught in headlights.  

"Oh, you're up," was all he could manage.

"Yes."  Scully then looked at Adam, and asked him if he'd like to watch a
video in the 'Big Bed.'  He asked if he could watch "The Lion King II" yet
again, and Scully nodded her head in the affirmative.   "Go on," she directed.
"You know how to put the tape in."  

She watched her son scamper off happily to watch his tape, and then looked
over at her husband who still held the phone to his ear.  Mulder opened his
mouth to say something, but then closed it again.  He turned his body
slightly, as if seeking some bit of privacy, and said in a lowered voice,
"I'll call you back another time.  Thanks."  He replaced the phone on its
cradle while he avoided looking at his wife.

Scully felt her heart in her throat.  She wondered who the hell that was, and
why was Mulder being so damned secretive about it?  

"Mulder?"

"How are you feeling?" he asked in an attempt to avoid the subject of the
phone call.

"Who were you talking to?" she asked, not buying the deflection for a moment.

"Just someone who might have some information; someone who might bring me
closer to the truth, that's all."

*Me.  Not _us_, but _me_.  What the hell happened to _us_?* she wondered
anxiously to herself.  She looked at her husband and then tried to speak in a
calm voice, but instead, it came out derisive.  

"Mulder, why are you being so damned secretive lately?" 

''Secretive?  I'm not being secretive," he replied defensively.  

"You are.  You didn't tell me where you were going the other night, you're not
telling me who you were on the phone with just now, and you've chosen to
withhold the reason you're seeing Dr. Woods again," she complained.

"What?  First of all, I told you about the original appointment regarding some
research.  This phone call had to do with that research.  And my reasons for
seeing Dr. Woods are my own.  When I'm ready to share them with you, I will,"
he said angrily.

He paused for a moment or two to catch his breath, and then added in a softer,
hurt tone, "God, Dane, I'm just not ready to confide in you on this one yet.
I don't know enough about it to understand it myself."

He looked back at her with wounded eyes.  She'd never questioned his judgment
in seeking Dr. Woods' counsel, and it hurt him to think she was questioning it
now.  

"Mulder, I need to know where you were the other night.  And who was just on
the phone with you?  I don't understand what's going on all of sudden, and I
have to know," Scully explained in an equally distressed tone.

Mulder looked at his wife with an incredulous expression.  It slowly dawned on
him she was telling him she didn't trust him.  He didn't know whether he felt
more angry or more hurt.

He decided it didn't really matter which.  All he knew was he had the
potential to say something he would definitely regret later.  Mulder did not
want to lash out in anger and say something that could upset her like she'd
just done to him.   So, he mutely stalked over and opened the front door,
walked through it, and closed it firmly behind him.
~~~~~

"Mom?  Mom, are you home?" she cried into the phone as she prayed the
answering machine was nothing more than a screening device.  "Mom, if you're
home, please, pick up.  Please__."

"__Dana?  Sweetheart, what's wrong?" asked Maggie Skinner.  "Why are you so
upset?"

"Where were you?" Dana asked as in her best, turbulent, two year old, tone of
voice.

"Dana, if you must know, I was in the bathroom.  Now, for crying out loud,
what is wrong?"

"What?  The bathroom?  You were in the bathroom? Oh God, Mom, what the hell is
wrong with me?  What did I do?"  Scully began to cry quietly into the phone.

"Dana, where is Adam?" asked Maggie.

"He's okay, Mom.  He's watching a video in the bedroom."

"Where's Fox?"

Silence greeted Maggie's question for several moments, until Maggie repeated
it.  "Dana, where is Fox?"

"I don't know," was the replied whisper.  "I think I chased him away."

"Sweetheart, I don't understand."

"Neither do I," Scully replied.  "I don't know what's wrong with me.  I've
never not trusted him before.  I may have been pissed off with him for
ditching me, but it was always because I was afraid he'd get hurt.  It was
never a matter of trust."

"And you don't trust him now?" Maggie probed.

"No.  Yes.  Oh, God, Mom, I don't know!  That's the problem.  I don't know,
and I pretty much told him that, and he walked out.  He was so angry.  And
hurt.  Oh God, I hurt him so much."

"Dana, do you want Walter and me to come over?"

She didn't hesitate for a moment. 

"Yes."
~~~~~

Mulder walked.  And walked.  And walked.  He'd almost gotten into his car, but
he realized he was too upset to focus on driving safely, so he walked.  He'd
changed into casual clothes while Dana was napping, and it gnawed at him that
he'd walked out on her when he knew she wasn't feeling well.  But he didn't
have a choice.  

At least he didn't feel as though he'd had a choice, so when the frustration
built up too much inside of him, he took off in a sprint.

When he wore himself down for the umpteenth time, Mulder simply walked some
more.  And he thought.

Mulder knew the easiest way of solving this problem was simply to tell Dana
about seeing Rabbi Ginsburg and the reason behind the visit, which in turn
necessitated his appointments for counseling with Dr. Woods.  So why did that
seemingly simple solution seem so impossible to carry out?

She didn't trust him.  

In the past Mulder may have given Dana countless reasons to worry about him,
fear for him, and have cause to be angry with him.  But he'd never done
anything to make her doubt his love for her; his commitment to her and their
marriage.

But now, for some reason, she didn't trust him.  And as much as he loved Dana,
with all of his heart, he also hated her for not believing in that love.

He took off on yet another sprint.

~~~~~

Dana answered the door and found her mother and step father standing before
her.  Her face obviously expressed the same frantic emotions she felt, because
both Walter and Maggie asked simultaniously, "Dana, what's wrong?"

As she moved aside to allow them entry, Dana said tremulously, "Well, I think
I accused my husband of having an affair.  Not in those words, of course, but
I suppose that was the intent."

"Dana," asked Walter, "do you know for a fact he's having an affair?"

"No.  Not at all.  In fact I doubt very highly he is, but I accused him all
the same.  My God, what's wrong with me?" 

"All right," interjected Maggie, "let's start from the beginning.  Please,
sweetheart, we need you to explain to us what's going on, so we can help you
figure out what to do next."

Dana indicated they should all sit down, and after she'd checked on Adam to
make sure he was still occupied watching videos, she sat down on and joined
them.  Dana started from the beginning and explained how Adam had been sick
and she'd stayed home to nurse him back to health.  She expressed her concern
when Mulder had called with some lame excuse about having an appointment
regarding some research.

She continued sharing her worries and doubts about the entire situation,
including the fact she, herself, felt lousy physically having probably caught
Adam's flu bug.  
 
Dana brought her mother and step father up to date on the events which
occurred earlier in the evening  which led Mulder to leave in anger.  "I don't
know what possessed me to speak to him like that.  He's never, ever given me
any reason to believe he could__ that he would ___."  Dana stopped short.  The
whole idea of Mulder cheating on her was so aberrant to his nature, she
couldn't voice it again.

"Dana, I don't believe it's in Fox's nature to ever cheat on you," confirmed
Maggie as she voiced Dana's thoughts.

"No, I don't think it is either, Mom.  It's just that he's been so secretive
and I've felt so lousy __.  I don't know, maybe the combination of the two
drove me to conclusions I would never in a million years  have considered
before.

"But right now," Dana continued in a worried tone, "I wish I knew where he
was.  He left over an hour and a half ago.  He was so upset.  I hope he hasn't
gotten into an accident."

"We saw both of your cars parked in their spaces.  Wherever he is, he's on
foot," remarked Walter.  

"I don't know if that's good or bad," Dana replied.  "Trouble has  a way of
finding my husband no matter what mode of transportation he takes.  Walking
included," she sighed.

"How about I go out for a stroll and see if I can catch up with him?" Walter
asked.

"That's a fine idea," agreed Maggie.  

"I don't know if he'd appreciate that," she began.

"Dana, it doesn't matter if he's angry that we're checking up on him.  The
important thing is to make sure he's okay.  We'll deal with the anger
afterwards,'' said Walter.  

When he saw Dana's eyes, wet with unshed tears, recognize the truth in his
words, Walter leaned over to kiss his step daughter on the forehead.  "I'll
find him, Dana.  Everything will be fine."  

He then kissed his wife on the cheek and left to search for his seemingly lost
son-in-law.

~~~~~

He was stooped over on the sidewalk and breathing extremely hard, when Skinner
finally found him.  Walter saw the sweat practically dripping off of Mulder's
back, and since Mulder wore no overcoat, Skinner wondered if he was looking at
the next candidate for pneumonia.  

Skinner cleared his throat noisily in an attempt not to startle his stepson in
law too much.  Apparently Mulder was aware of his father-in-law's arrival
because, without looking up, he rasped quietly, "I'm okay."

"Fox," Walter began.

"No," he cut him off all the while attempting to take in deeper and deeper
breaths without too much success.  "I said, I'm okay __," he insisted though
unconvincingly.  "I'm not  ready to _ , talk about _, this."

"Well, then you just listen," Skinner began with increasing concern for the
man before him.  He noted the difficulty Mulder was having in catching his
breath, but continued to plead Dana's case anyway.  

"Dana is worried sick about you.  She knows she was wrong.  She couldn't
believe the things she said to you, and she feels very guilty about it.  Fox,
you can't let her go on feeling guilty for her mistake."

"I never planned-_,  on making her _, feel guilty_,  for a mistake _.  I've
made a _, mistake too _ .   Oh God __, and she's __, been so __, tired and __,
sick.  I__, I should have_,  told her," he admitted in between small gasps.

"Told her?  What should you have told her?" Walter asked concerned.

"I_, I should have _,  told her where_ ,I went _, that night _.  Why I needed
_,  to see Karen _.  Especially _, since she's _, sick.  I __, should have
__," he began to confess, when he suddenly coughed and continued to cough
until Skinner got worried.  Each cough brought about an air born swirl of
foggy condensation.  The temperature had dropped and Mulder was standing
outside, dripping with sweat, and coughing his ass off.

"Don't worry about Dana; she's fine, but are you okay?"  He began trying to
strike the younger man on the back in attempt to help him, but it wasn't
helping.  If anything it was only exasperating the problem.

"I_,  can't _, catch _,  my _, breath _," Mulder gasped between coughs.

Skinner didn't hesitate.  He pulled out his cell phone and immediately dialed
911.  He helped Mulder sit down on the street curb before he lost
consciousness and fell down.  

"An ambulance is on its way, Fox.  Hang in there," Skinner consoled.  He noted
Mulder was no longer coughing as much, but his ability to breathe was
definitely impaired.

"I _, don't _, know _, why _," he gasped in soft, breathy tones.

"Fox, don't talk.  Save your breath."

"So _, long _, since _," Mulder wheezed.  "Little _, boy __."

Skinner sat next to Mulder and wrapped his arm around his son in law's
shoulder in a small attempt to offer reassurance.  "Hang in there, Fox.
You're going to be fine."

"Oh _,  God _.  Please _, I_, can't _, breathe __."  He looked up at his
father in law with a feeling of helplessness he hadn't felt since he was a
child.  "Help __, me __, Dad __."

"The ambulance is coming.  Listen, I can hear the sirens," Skinner replied
hopefully.  Moments later, the sirens were evident to both men, and Skinner
felt himself relax a bit, while Mulder's body continued to spasm in agonizing
gasps and wheezes.

As soon as the paramedics hooked their radio up to base, they were able to
relay the symptoms and history to the doctor on call at the hospital.  The
doctors directed them to administer the necessary dosage of  the
bronchodilator and transport a/s/a/p .  

Skinner called Dana's house from his cell phone to let her know to meet them
at Georgetown University Medical Center.  Dana didn't even ask what was wrong;
she simply said, "We're on our way," and hung up.

~~~~~

"Where is he?" Scully asked as she rushed into the emergency room holding Adam
in her arms.  Maggie Skinner followed quickly by her side.

"He's still in the examining room.  He'd settled down in the ambulance after
the paramedic administered the medication, and seemed to be more comfortable
by the time we arrived here," Skinner informed.

"Walter," Maggie interjected, "what happened?"

"I found him bent over trying to catch his breath.  He'd obviously been
running, since he'd worked up a helluva sweat.  We were talking a bit, but I'd
noticed he was having some trouble breathing, and then he started coughing and
that was it.  He began wheezing something awful, and he started to panic.

"Actually, I think if the ambulance had taken any longer to arrive, I'd have
gone into a full blown panic attack myself," Skinner admitted.

"Gam-Pa?" Though Adam had actually overcome his difficulties in pronouncing
the wretched /r/ sound, he stuck to the affectionate nicknames of  'Gam-pa'
and 'Gam-ma' for Walter and Maggie.  He asked in his sweet, a small voice.
"Is my Daddy very sick again?" 

"No, Adam.  Daddy's going to be fine.  We'll see him as soon as the doctors
finish examining him, okay?" Walter consoled.

Adam nodded thoughtfully and clung more to his mother.  He'd heard those words
before when it came to his father.  Even at the tender age of four and a half,
Adam knew his father visited the hospital more than most daddies.

Scully finally had to put the child down and instructed him to chose a toy
from their emergency bag and play quietly.  Suddenly, Scully started laughing
unexpectedly.

"Dana?  Sweetheart, what's so funny?" asked Maggie.  When Dana continued to
laugh to the point where she was obviously losing control of herself, Maggie
asked anxiously, "Dana, what's wrong?"

"I actually have an 'emergency' toy bag ready at all times.  Isn't that the
sickest thing you've ever heard of?" she asked as the laughter turned to sobs.

"Oh, Dana," Maggie sighed and pulled her into her arms to comfort.  "He's
fine.  He had an asthma attack, honey.  He's going to be just fine."

"Mrs. Mulder?" a new voice called out.  

"She's right here," Walter pointed out.  He watched as Scully attempted to
regain her composure by straightening up and smoothing out her slacks.  

"How is my husband?" 

"He's on oxygen for now, and as much as I'd like to admit him for overnight
observation, he seems pretty insistent about going home.  He says you're an
MD?" asked the doctor.

"Yes.  What happened?" asked Scully succinctly as she transformed into doctor
mode.

"He had an asthma attack," replied the doctor in kind.

"But he doesn't have asthma, Doctor," interjected Skinner.  "He'd probably
have been disqualified for field service if he did."

"Field service?" echoed the doctor in a slightly confused manner.

"FBI field agent."

"Oh.  Well, apparently Agent Mulder had had asthma as a small child.  He'd
outgrown it, as is often the case in childhood asthma, however the right
conditions can trigger an attack in just about anyone.

"He was doing some strenuous exercise in some rather cold temperatures.  That
alone can trigger an attack.  However, Agent Mulder also let it be known he's
under the care of a psychologist; a Dr. Woods, I believe?"  When Scully nodded
her head in the affirmative, the doctor continued, "Well, add to the mix any
kind of elevated stress levels and his history of asthma,  and you have the
makin's of a first class episode."

"Doctor," asked Maggie, "is this permanent?"

"I doubt it.  I suspect all of the conditions were coincidentally in place for
an isolated incident.  Obviously, I would continue to monitor him for the next
few days to be sure.  I might even recommend he carry around an inhaler for a
little while, though personally, I don't believe he'll have cause to use it." 

The doctor had made sure to direct this last bit of information directly to
Skinner, in an attempt to reassure him that Mulder's field agent status should
not be affected by this incident.

"May I see him?" asked Scully.  The doctor nodded and led her to his room.

~~~~~

He was sitting upright with the small oxygen tube inserted into his nostrils.
He still looked a little pasty, but not as badly as Scully had anticipated.
When he looked at her,  all she saw was fatigue and sadness.

"Mulder _," she began.

"_I just want to go home now, Dane.  I'm sorry.  Please, don't make me stay
overnight," he pleaded in a soft, tired voice.

"Of course you're coming home with me.  There's nothing they can do for you
here that I can't do for you at home," Scully reassured, and in fact, she
breathed a sigh of relief that he _wanted_ to come home.  A couple of hours
ago she'd have had her doubts.

"Thank you."

"Mulder, you don't have to thank me to come home.  Look, I need to say
something to you."

"Not now.  Let's go home," he urged.

"No.  Now.  While I'm still brave enough to admit this out loud," she began.
Mulder looked slightly quizzical at her last remark, but he remained silent so
she could continue.

"Mulder," she stalled, "Mulder, I'm sorry for behaving like a jealous,
untrusting, shrew.  I feel like shit.  I'm bloated, I'm nauseous, I'm
exhausted, and totally on edge.  Now, I know none of those things can really
excuse my behavior, but I hope it helps to explain it.  I'm just not feeling
myself, Mulder, and I'm sorry for taking it out on you.  Really.  I am so
sorry."

"It's okay, Dane.  I should have told you what was going on.  I felt so badly
running off on you like that when I knew you weren't feeling a hundred
percent.   I should've __."  Mulder paused and then looked up at Scully with
wide eyes. 

"What?" she asked.

"Holy shit!  Dane, you're pregnant!" he practically shouted with glee.

"What?  Mulder, don't be ridiculous!  I have the flu.  I'm a doctor, for
crying out loud, don't you think I'd know if I was pregnant or not?" 

"Obviously,  not this time," Mulder replied with a small smirk.

"Mulder, don't start with me," she began.  "Let's just get you home."

"Take a blood test."

"What?"

"Dane, humor me.  Take a blood test, and then we'll know for sure."

Dana stood there and simply rolled her eyes.  "Fine.  I'll take the damned
blood test, but then we get the hell out of here.  Mom and Walter are waiting
outside with Adam, and it's late."  

Mulder nodded totally, and they both called in for the doctor.

"Hey, Doc," said Mulder as the ER doctor walked back into his room, "I gotta
big favor to ask of you. 
~~~~~

The doctor had suggested a urine analysis might be less invasive, but since it
would still be relatively early in the pregnancy and the Mulders wanted to be
a hundred per cent sure, they'd opted for the blood test.  

Mulder had laughed silently to himself as he'd watched his brave, doctor wife
turn slightly green as the needle punctured her arm to draw the blood. He
couldn't have helped but think the next time she tried to cajole him into
taking a shot by saying 'there's nothing to be afraid of,' he was going to
throw this little incident back up in her beautiful, freckled face.

The two of them were waiting in his room for about twenty-five minutes when
the doctor returned.  "Well, I'd better give you a prescription for an
inhaler, Mr. Mulder," announced the doctor with a slight glint in his eyes.

"What?  I thought you said this was an isolated incident," asked an anxious
Scully.

"Well, it was, but it looks like Mr. Mulder's stress levels will be going up.
Maybe I should prescribe one for you, Mrs. Mulder?" the doctor said with a
slight chuckle.

"Ohmigod!  She is, isn't she?" exclaimed Mulder.

"Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Mulder.  You're going to become parents again."

"I'm pregnant?" Scully asked incredulously.  "How could I not know I was
pregnant?"

"C'mon, Mrs. Mulder, or rather, _Dr. _ Mulder, you know we doctors are
notoriously the worst patients.  We couldn't self diagnose ourselves if our
lives depended upon it.  And thank heavens it usually doesn't!"  

"Well, Dad, looks like you've knocked me up again!" Scully teased.

"Oh, aren't you the romantic one," Mulder chuckled, "like you didn't have
anything to do with this!"

"All right.  Let's get this show on the road, because now that we know why
I've been acting like a raving lunatic, when we get home, it's going to be
your turn," proclaimed Scully.

"To explain why I'm a raving lunatic?" he asked innocently.

"Mulder, no one will ever be able to explain that, least of all you.  No, my
sweets, all I'm looking for is an explanation of the secretive behavior of
late, that's all."

"That's all?  Easy for you to say, Scully."

"I know, and I promise to try and make it easy for you too.  I love you G-Man;
you gotta know that."

"Aw, Scully, with all my heart.  Yeah, we need to talk.  Or I guess, I need to
talk.  I've been needing to talk to you for a long time."

As they gathered Mulder's clothes for him to get dressed for the ride home,
Scully thought about how she was going to break the news about the new baby to
her son, mom, and step-father.  It was still way too early for an
announcement; she didn't even want to mention it to her mom and step-father at
this point.  

She and Mulder had already survived one miscarriage, and it was hard enough
for them to deal with it.  She wouldn't be able bear explaining it to others,
should it happen again.

Mulder thought about how he was going to explain his decision to study for his
long, overdue Bar Mitzvah, and more importantly, what it was that was
preventing him from going through with it.

Now that was the sixty four dollar question, wasn't it?
~~~~~


Part 4/6

Once they'd settled Adam into his bed, and Scully had put up a pot of herbal
tea to brew, they sat down on the couch and simply held one another.  They sat
like that for what seemed like a long time, though in reality it was only as
long as it took for the pot of tea to steep thoroughly.

Scully pressed her lips on Mulder's forehead and stood up.  She poured two
cups of tea, returned, and set them on the coffee table.  She sat back down,
looked at Mulder carefully, and said, "Speak."

"You know, I really would prefer a cup of coffee," he procrastinated.

"I don't think so, G-Man, not as long you're walking around with an inhaler in
your pocket.  Caffeine is the last thing you need right now.  So, speak."

"I assume you're telling me it's my turn to spill my guts, right Scully?"

"Right," she replied, smiling at her husband's use of her maiden name.  It
never ceased to amaze her how he used her name as a security blanket.  It was
as if 'Scully' could protect him from himself better than 'Dana' or rather,
'Dane' could.  Perhaps he was right.  'Scully' went through a helluva lot more
crises with Mulder than 'Dane' did, though 'Dane' was catching up a whole lot
faster than either liked. 

"Speak."

"Okay, okay.  I_, I'm not _, I mean _," he sputtered.  "Damn it, Scully, I
don't know where to begin."

"The beginning would be nice."  When he continued to stare at her mutely, she
suggested, "How about telling me where you went a couple of nights ago?  With
whom did you have the appointment, Mulder?"

"Gerry," he blurted out.

"Gerry," she echoed without recognition.  Then, suddenly, the light bulb
turned on, and she repeated, "Gerry?  Rabbi Gerry?"

Mulder nodded in affirmation and felt his face begin to turn beet red.  Scully
noticed his discomfort, and for the life of her she couldn't understand why
__, unless it was __.  Scully shuddered at the thoughts rampaging through her
mind at that moment.

Could Mulder have sought out Rabbi Ginsburg for some kind of confession?  Is
that why he seems so uncomfortable?  "Mulder, I don't understand," she said
softly.  "What was your reason for seeking out Rabbi Gerry?"

"I went there because _."  He stopped.  The more he thought about the whole
situation, the more embarrassed he felt.  He wondered what ever possessed him
to even consider going through with it.  It was absurd; a thirty-eight year
old man thinking about being Bar Mitzvah'd.  It was ridiculous, and it was
about time he admitted it to himself.

"No reason, Scully.  Or at least whatever the reason was doesn't exist any
longer.  Dane, I'm so sorry I worried you.  I did my typical 'look before you
leap' move and didn't think of the consequences.  Well, I promise, I'll be
much more careful.  I swear, Dane."

"Oh, Mulder," she began.  Mulder looked at her with an expression that begged
for understanding, but Dana was not about to cave in quite so easily.  "Cut
the bullshit."

Mulder's face fell to the ground.  He looked so forlorn, Dana almost started
laughing out loud, but she knew if she was going to get to the bottom of this,
she had to maintain her self-control.  

"Now, tell me what it was that no longer exists," she gently demanded.  She
knew she had to pursue this with vigilance, but she didn't want to antagonize
him either.  Scully worked hard to keep her tone of voice firm, but
encouraging at the same time. 

Of course,  since all she wanted to do at this point was throttle her husband
for scaring her half to death, her self-imposed restraint posed quite a
challenge for her.

He returned the intensity of her stare.  He realized he was going to have to
come clean. His Scully would settle for nothing less than the absolute truth,
and he realized she deserved nothing less.  He took a deep breath and began
his explanation.

~~~~~

"But why would you hyperventilate at simply looking at the Hebrew letters?"
she asked.  "I mean, obviously the Hebrew was a trigger for something.  Why
hadn't you hyperventilated when we had that case in New York City.  When you'd
found that Jewish prayer book," Scully asked.

"The sepher yetzirah?" he responded.  She nodded, so he posed his theory.  "I
don't think I had an anxiety attack back then, because I hadn't give myself
the chance to have one.  I never really attempted to read it; I'd simply told
the Rabbi in New York I couldn't.  I guess I'd had a feeling I wouldn't be
able to, but I didn't know why then and I don't know why now."

"So you went to Karen.  Did she offer any explanations?" Scully asked.

"No.  She did suggest the regression therapy, but I'd turned her down."

"Why, Mulder?  Why turn her down if it could give us a clue as to what was
going on?" 

"That was the problem: us."  When Scully looked at him puzzled, he continued.
"I'd have wanted you there while I went through it, and I just wasn't ready to
share this whole crazy idea with you yet," he admitted.  "It was such a stupid
idea, Scully.  I mean why would I even consider subjecting myself to this?"

"Because," Scully began thoughtfully,  "it's something that might bring you
closer to your beliefs. It might also give you an opportunity to reconcile
your anxieties regarding your faith and, maybe, how you remember your family;
how you remember parents and Samantha."

"I don't know," he replied in kind.  "I don't know if I could ever fully come
to terms with my family.  My faith?  I have you.  That's all the faith I need,
I think."

"No."

"No?" he echoed in puzzlement.

"No, you need more.  Mulder, think about it.  Your last couple of emotional
crises all revolved around some aspect of your religion.  At Passover, you
lost it, and prior to that, when Adam was missing, you talked about how Nana
helped you.  Nana played an important part in your acquisition of your faith,"
Scully pointed out.

"Yeah, but then she died, Scully, and life went on."

"True, and in fact, it was apparently your mother who somehow managed to keep
your religious education going.  I remember you told me once, either right
before or right after we got married; I can't remember which, it was she who
pulled you out of the Hebrew classes.

"But from what you're telling me you remember now, I guess your mom was the
one who kept you going to class until your father decided no more.
Considering how your father had reacted to religious traditions of any kind,
the fact that you even attended Hebrew school after your Nana's death was a
miracle," reminded Scully.

"I guess, but what difference does it make now?  Scully, my mother and I
barely talk now.  I mean, the only thing that connects us is Adam.  So, what
difference should it make to me now if she was the one who drove me to Hebrew
School?"

"Maybe she played a bigger role in your life than you're able to remember,"
she postulated.  "I mean, it seems to me your mom was taking a helluva chance
in getting you to Hebrew Class when your dad was probably hell bent against
it.  Right?" Scully asked.

When Mulder looked at her, Scully felt his confusion.  She realized he
honestly didn't remember how his mother fit into his life's equation; past or
present.

"Mulder," she said cautiously, "Maybe it makes a difference because your
religion is something that's been important to you for many, many years,
without you realizing it.  The recent past, I think, only proves to me it's
been a hole in your life that you've wanted __, no, needed to fill in," Scully
concluded.

"I guess.  But what do I do about it?" Mulder admitted in whispered tones.

"Call her."

"What?" Mulder looked at the woman before him with unbelieving eyes.

"Call her, Mulder.  You don't have a choice anymore.  She's the only one who
can provide you with answers."

"God, Scully, I don't know.  It's way too late to call now anyway, so let me
think, okay?"  He paused for a moment and then added with more honesty than
even he'd imagined possible, "I don't know what answers she could give me,
Scully.  Hell,  I'm not even sure of the questions."
~~~~~

He woke up early the next day, and before he had time to have a debate with
himself, he picked up the phone and dialed the rarely called number.

"You have reached the number, 203-869-1013. Please leave a clear message at
the sound of the beep, with your name, phone number, and reason for calling.
I will get back to you as soon as I am able."

BEEP

"Hi, Mom.  It's your son, Fox.  Umm, I need to talk to about something.  It's
about __, umm, well, just call me back when you get a chance, please?  You
know the number."

"Why didn't you tell her what it was about?" asked Scully.

"I almost did, but then I realized she'd probably never return the call if she
knew I wanted information about my past.  Mom's not exactly the most
forthcoming when it comes to particular details about my childhood," he
reminded.

"True," she agreed, and then quietly asked, "Do you think she'll call back?"

"I don't know."

~~~~~
The morning passed and day turned into evening, and then evening into night.
Then, the next day came and went, and neither Scully nor Mulder spoke anything
more about the Bar Mitzvah, or the fact Elizabeth Mulder had yet shown the
common courtesy  to return his call.  So it was with a rather puzzled
expression when they heard the doorbell ring.

"Expecting anyone?" asked Dana.

"Nope," he responded as he walked to the door.  He looked through the peephole
and let out a mild expletive, loud  enough for Dana to hear from the other
room.

"Mulder?  What's wrong?" she asked.

He turned to her and uttered with total surprise in his voice, "I don't
believe it.  She's here."

"Don't believe what and who's here?"

"My mother."

"What?" Dana practically squeaked.

"Yeah, my sentiments exactly."  He stood there rather dumbfounded until he
heard the doorbell ring again.  "Oh shit!" he exclaimed when he realized he'd
left his mother standing outside of their townhouse.

He opened the door and saw his mother standing there with a somewhat
exasperated expression.  "For heaven's sake, Fox.  Are you going to keep me
standing out in the cold all day, or you going to invite me in?"

He sputtered an invitation inside and moved out of the way to allow her to
pass.  "No suitcase?" he asked.

"No, I checked into the Hilton, dear.  I didn't think there'd be enough room
for you to accommodate me comfortably.  Now, where is my grandson?" she asked
and didn't notice Mulder's shoulders slump a little at the slight dig she made
at their living quarters.

He looked around and realized with all of Adam's toys and the fact there were
only two bedrooms, they probably couldn't have put his mother up in the
comfort she'd grown accustomed to.  He saw Dana come out with Adam and hoped
she hadn't heard his mother's disparaging remarks about their home.    Of
course it did give Mulder some pause to realize with another baby on the way,
they would probably have to think about a larger home.

He sighed, shook himself back to the present, and called out to his son, "Hey
Adam!  Look who came for a visit?!"

"Grandma Bette!" he called out.  "Hi, Grandma Bette.  Wow, I didn't know you
were coming for a visit!"

"Well," she began, "I received a message from your daddy that said he needed
to talk to me about something.  So, I figured what better way to talk than to
come and do it in person, and this way I could see my handsome grandson!"

Adam ran over to his grandmother and wrapped his arms around her legs.  She
knelt down somewhat in order to return the favor, and squeezed him close to
her.

Mulder watched the scene and, as much as he didn't want to, felt a twinge of
jealousy.  He so wanted to experience that same, unconditional love from his
mother, but he also knew that would probably never happen.  Mulder was simply
grateful she bestowed it upon Adam.

His incredibly sensitive, intuitive wife walked over to his side and reached
around his waist and pulled him toward her.  She knew, instinctively just what
he'd been thinking and what he needed.  They watched, together, the scene as
it played out before them.

As they expected, Adam became fidgety very quickly.  He soon wriggled out of
his grandmother's arms and asked her if she would like to watch the Simba
movie with him in the 'Big Bed.'

"Not now, dear, and besides, why aren't you dressed and playing outside?  It's
a beautiful day out."  She'd directed the latter half of her remarks to both
Scully and Mulder.  They both wondered if she even heard the accusing tone
she'd assumed.

"Mom," Mulder began, "Adam's just getting over a nasty flu bug.  He's only
just to act like himself again."

"Yeah, Grandma Bette," Adam chirped in, "and Mommy's been sick too, and Daddy
was in the hospital the other night too, and __."

"__ Hospital?" interrupted Bette Mulder.

"It was nothing, Mom.  I went running in the cold and had a mild asthma
attack.  I wasn't dressed properly, that's all," he explained.  

"Asthma?  You haven't had an asthma attack since you were twelve," she sighed.

"Yeah, well, the doctor said it wasn't anything to be concerned about," he
responded quickly.  "So, Mom, what brings you all the way to DC?"

"Oh, Fox, don't panic.  I don't plan on staying more than a day or two, so you
needn't worry about having to put up with me any longer than that.  Now," she
began, not to be sidetracked, "what's this about an asthma attack."

"It was a combination of fatigue, too much exercise, and the cold weather,
Mom.  I'm fine," he said in a monotone with his eyes looking down toward the
floor.  Suddenly he looked up, and stared straight into her eyes.  "Mom?  Why
did you come here?"

She returned the stare, and then hesitated slightly before she spoke.  "I'm
not sure.  It just felt like the right thing to do, Fox.  I honestly don't
know what possessed me to come this time," she said, and then she shook her
head back and forth slightly and muttered, "I just don't know," over and over
again.

"Well Mrs. Mulder," Scully cut in, "we're very glad to have you here.  Please,
sit down, and I'll make some tea."

"I would prefer coffee, if you have, Dana."

Scully looked quickly over at her husband and hesitated for a moment.  It had
been a couple of days, and Mulder hadn't needed to use the inhaler, so she
surmised it was probably safe for him to have a cup.  

As if reading her mind, Mulder said, "I'm okay, Dane.  I won't have more than
one cup, okay?"

Scully smiled at how well her husband knew her.  She then practically ran to
the kitchen to make the coffee and left poor Mulder stranded like a lost
kitten.  She knew this was going to be difficult for him, but Dana also hoped
Mulder would take the opportunity to really talk to his mother.  

~~~~~

They sipped their coffee silently.  The conversation was nonexistent between
mother and son. The last serious conversation the two had had was right after
Mulder had become engaged to Dana, and he'd decided to share the good news
with his mother in person.  It was also the anniversary of his sister's
disappearance, and neither he nor his mother were very good company that
night.

She had told him, in effect, it was supposed to have been him that was taken
and she had been preparing herself for that event for many, many years.  She'd
told him she'd basically detached herself from him and had never truly loved
him to avoid the complications of such emotions.

And it had caused one more part of him to die another slow death.

Because no matter what, he'd always loved her.

~~~~~

"Why did I stop going to Hebrew School?  Why didn't I have a Bar Mitzvah?" he
suddenly asked to break the silence.

"Oh."  She'd visibly gulped some air, and now slowly expelled it in order to
answer him.  "You just stopped.  I don't remember exactly what happened."

"What happened?" he repeated.  "What happened to stop me from going?"

"I didn't say anything happened, Fox."

"Yes, Mom, you did.  You said you didn't remember what had happened, which
conversely means something had to have happened for you not to remember."

"Oh, Fox.  Don't.  Please."

"Mom, for once, can't you be straight with me.  Please?" he pleaded.

"You don't remember anything?" she asked cautiously.

"No.  I don't remember anything,"  Mulder replied with annoyance.  "If I did,
I wouldn't have needed you to fill in the gaps."

Elizabeth looked into her cup of coffee as if the answers to all of life's
questions were going to magically appear in the middle of it.  "Dana, would
you by any chance have anything a little stronger than cream that could go
into this coffee?"

"I have some Amaretto," she replied.

"That will do, my dear.  Thank you."  Scully went to get the rectangular
bottle and passed it to her mother-in-law.  She nodded her thanks again,
opened the bottle, and poured herself a healthy portion.  She took a long
smooth gulp of the coffee, and then a couple of smaller sips.  Elizabeth
Mulder savored the taste of the liquor for an extra moment and then began her
narrative.


"It was much harder after your Nana died, Fox.  She was a very strong woman.
A great deal stronger than her daughter ever was," Elizabeth began.  She
paused as she collected her thoughts to remember the past.

"She made me promise to see to it you and Samantha continued to learn about
Jewish traditions and attend Religious school.  She knew I would never be able
to celebrate the holidays as we celebrated them at her house; she knew your
father would never, ever tolerate that.  But she made me promise to, at the
very least, send you to Religious instruction, so you would have some idea
about your identity.

"Your father hated the idea, of course, but I'd promised Nana.  I may have
been weak when it came to a good many things, Fox, but when it came to my
promises to Nana, I always kept them."

She paused again to let her words sink in, and as she waited she saw the
emotions Fox wore on his sleeve so plainly appear once again.  As if she read
his mind, "Fox, I always keep the promises I've made."

"Always?" he asked incredulously.  "What about me, Mom?"

"Fox, I can't break any promises I've never made,'' she replied in a clipped
tone.  She watched his face evolve through a half dozen reactions and
emotions, until Elizabeth finally saw the one she knew would be last.  

Defeated.  

"No, Mom.  I guess you never did," he admitted tonelessly.

"I don't understand you," murmured Scully.  "I really don't understand either
of you."  Both mother and son gazed back at the younger woman with little
affect.  "Elizabeth, you have just admitted, perhaps not in so many words, but
you've basically said you've never made a parental commitment to your son.

"And you,'' she sighed, as she looked at her husband, "you sit there and
accept it as if it's the most normal thing in the world. 

"Why is that?" she questioned.  "Why are you both so willing to accept what
should be so obviously unacceptable?"  

She paused for a moment, and then allowed a small smile to form on her lips.
"Do you realize the only truly normal one I've met in this family is Nana, but
unfortunately,  she's dead," Scully concluded dryly.  

The trio remained silent for  a few minutes when Elizabeth looked curiously at
her son.  "You never told her?" she asked calmly.

Mulder stared back at his mother while Scully looked on at both of them with a
puzzled expression.  "Never told me what," Scully asked.

"I don't think we need to bring this up now, Mom."

"You never told her.  Why?" Elizabeth asked tonelessly.

"What did you want me to tell her, Mom?" Mulder asked angrily. "That you'd
planned to never love me?  That a choice had been made long before Sam's
abduction, and it was supposed to be me that was taken?  That you purposely
never allowed yourself to love me so _you_ wouldn't be hurt when I was taken?
That you and my father were devastated Sam was taken instead of me?  Or
perhaps, you were more devastated at the thought _I_ was simply the child left
behind?

"Sometimes I think you would have been happier if we'd _both_ been taken
instead of just Samantha," he concluded.

"I suspect you're right, Fox," his mother agreed.

"What are you two talking about?" Scully asked in exasperation.  "Elizabeth,
how could you not love your son?  How could a mother not love her child?"
Scully's eyes filled with tears at this point as she unconsciously began to
gently rub her stomach in a circular motion.  

''When you are informed, from the time your child is born, that  your child is
going to be taken from you at some point in his young life, you do whatever
you need to do to survive it and deal with it," Elizabeth said evenly.

"No."  Scully responded firmly.

"You don't know __," Elizabeth began.

"__ No," Scully interrupted.  "No, no, no!  When you are informed, from the
time your child is born, that your child is to be taken from you at some point
in his young life, you do NOT accept it as fact.  You fight it.  You do what
ever you need to do to thwart it."

"I never said I was a strong woman," Elizabeth countered.  "My mother _, Nana,
now, she was a strong woman.  She stood up to Bill.  Oh she told him to keep
his God damned hands off of her 'Foxila'.  Her shayner boychikel." 

Mulder's eyes startled as he heard his mother's voice repeat the endearments
his grandmother used to say so frequently to him when she was alive.  He never
recalled hearing anything so sentimental coming out of his mother's mouth, and
it surprised him to hear her utter those phrases.

"Mom," Mulder choked out, "how did you get Dad to let us go to Hebrew school?"

"In the beginning, your father never 'let' you go to Hebrew school.   I simply
didn't tell him.  I just signed you up and then later on, Samantha, and took
you both.  Once your father did find out, he was madder than all get out, but
I told him you'd both been going for quite some time and there was no point in
not letting you finish it.  

"He then told me there was no way we were going to go through the expense of
Bar Mitzvahs for you and Sam, so if I wanted to waste my money sending you
just for the sake of going to school then he didn't give a damn," Elizabeth
explained.

"Why would he let you waste your money.  Wasn't it his money too?" asked
Scully curiously.

"No, actually it wasn't.  It was the inheritance Nana left me.  It wasn't all
that much, but her will stated its purpose was to provide a Jewish education
for her grandchildren.  I had to carry out her wishes.

"She was my mother," Elizabeth whispered reverently.

~~~~~

Several minutes of silence passed when Mulder revealed, "I remember running to
the car.  I remember you calling to me and telling me to run and get into the
car."   He looked up at his mother and added, "He got angry about something,
didn't he.  What got him angry, Mom?"

She looked at her son rather forlornly, as she really didn't want to dredge
this particular memory back up.  She also knew, however, there was a reason
she'd flown to DC to see her son, and Elizabeth figured this must have been
the reason.

"He was so angry the consortium had changed the plan; he was so angry they'd
found you unfit for the program and had decided to take Sam instead.  He
wanted to do anything and everything to punish someone, anyone.  So, your
father forbade you to continue Hebrew school once Sam was taken.

"He ranted and raved about what kind of God would allow his precious daughter
to be taken; a daughter who was taught to believe in God, yet was taken from
her home just the same.  He was so angry," she repeated.  

"But you ignored his demand.  You took me to school anyway," Mulder
conjectured.

"Yes, I took you anyway, after you'd returned from the hospital.  You were
hospitalized for quite a few days after Sam was taken, Fox.  I didn't know if
you would have been able to return to any kind of school, but once you came
home you seemed okay.  

"So I brought you back to school.  And the first couple of times there was no
problem, since your father was away on business.   I thanked God for taking
him away on business.

"But then he returned and surmised where I was taking you on Sunday afternoon,
and he became furious.  He'd been drinking, of course, and it had never taken
much to make him fly off the handle," she remembered with disdain.

"So he figured it out and told me not to go," he stated flatly.  "Jeez, what
the hell is the big deal then that would make me go into an apoplectic fit
when I try to read Hebrew.  I don't understand this," Mulder moaned in
frustration. 

"He didn't simply tell you not to go, Fox.  Your father never chose to do
things in a simple way, or have you forgotten how he preferred to deal with
you," Elizabeth reminded.

Mulder's eyes darkened as he absorbed his mother's words.  "No, Mom.  I didn't
forget how he dealt with me." He took a deep breath, and added, "I didn't
forget how you dealt with the aftermath of his dealings with me either."

''You think it was easy for me to listen to it?" she retorted.

"It was a helluva a lot easier for you to listen to it then for me to receive
it!" Mulder shouted back.  

"Stop it!" yelled Scully.  "Stop it, please."   She looked from her husband to
her mother in law and pleaded with them to calm down.  "All of the accusations
and excuses aren't going to change what's happened," she rationalized.  

"Mulder, you had a reason to call your mother.  You had a specific reason for
wanting to learn about one part of your past.  Focus on that for now, okay?"

He nodded his head and looked again at Elizabeth.  "Something happened the
last time I went to Hebrew school, didn't it," he asked rhetorically.

Elizabeth sighed deeply.  She took one more swig of the alcohol laced coffee
and spoke.  "He was drunk, which of course was nothing new, but he was really
drunk that day.  He'd  been away for the last few days and had only arrived
very late the night before.  He'd been drunk when he'd entered the house, and
simply kept up the pace all night long.

"When he'd figured out where we were going that morning he went into a rage.
He started screaming and throwing things about how he wasn't going to spend
anymore God damned money on a religion that left no good sons but took
beautiful, sweet daughters from their fathers.

"He started to go after you, so I told you to run to the car.  I'll never
forget the look on your father's face when I told you to run from him.  I
believe it's the first time I ever openly defied him, and he was furious.  I'm
not sure who he wanted to beat to a pulp more, you or me.

"We got to the car and I took off so fast the tires squealed.  Do you remember
calling me Mario Andretti?  We were both so scared yet so relieved at the same
time.  Oh Fox, we were both breathing so hard, yet we were laughing too.
Don't you remember?"

"Yeah.  Yeah, I do remember.  I was so amazed to hear you laugh.  Do you know
how long it had been since I'd heard you laugh, Mom?  Not since before Sam was
taken.  It was over two months after Sam was abducted, and you're right.  We
were both so scared shitless he was going to catch up to us, yet, we were
laughing.  We were actually enjoying getting away from the bastard.

"Yes.  It felt good to laugh again, even if it was at his expense," agreed
Elizabeth.  She smiled slightly at the memory, and then her expression turned
dark again.

"What Mom?  What happened next?" Mulder asked tentatively.

"Next?  What do you think, Fox?" she asked through clenched teeth.

"Oh, God," he gasped.  

~~~~~
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Life Cycles XIV:  Coming of Age
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Disclaimers in Part 1

Part 5/6

Scully heard it first.  Next, Elizabeth's eyes went wide with concern.  

"Where is it?" Scully asked anxiously.  "Mulder, where did you put it?"

Mulder sat there with his eyes darting frantically back and forth between his
wife and his mother.  The wheezes became louder while his breathing became
more and more labored.  The breaths he was taking were growing less and less
efficient.  It was now impossible for him to speak.

"Mulder, where's the inhaler?  Point!"

He finally pointed in the direction of the bedroom, and Scully rushed in to
locate it.  Moments later she reappeared in the living room with the inhaler
in her hand.  She sat down next to Mulder and assisted in administering the
appropriate dose.  

As they all sat, each holding their own breaths, they waited for the
bronchialdialator to take effect.  Scully sat next to him and rubbed her hand
on his back in soothing, circular motions.  She tried to be patient, but it
seemed to be taking way too long for him to begin breathing normally again.

"Mulder, I don't think this is doing the trick.  I think we need to go back to
the hospital," she said grimly, for she knew full well what his response would
be.

Mulder began to shake his head back and forth vigorously in response.  His
eyes practically screamed out, 'NO!'  

"All right, Mulder, but you've got to concentrate on taking deep, even
breaths.  Now c'mon, or neither of us will have a choice."

He closed his eyes in a more concentrated effort to control his breathing.
The last thing Mulder wanted to do was return to the hospital.  He felt his
mother's eyes directly on him, and he wasn't sure if he found that more
consoling or disquieting.

Several minutes passed until Mulder felt he was back in control of his
breathing.  He kept his eyes closed and continued to focus on the deep
breathing exercises he remembered doing as a child.  Some things are not
forgotten; they're simply stored away for safe keeping.

"I remember the last time you did that," Elizabeth said softly.  When Fox
opened his eyes to gaze directly at her, she continued.  "You were getting
ready to leave for Oxford.  Do you remember?"  

He shook his head slowly.  

"You were all arms and legs; I suppose gangly was the best description.  You
were tall.  You were a young man.  But you looked so scared as you got into
the cab.  I remember watching you begin to breath faster and faster, and I
imagined you were going to have an asthma attack right then and there.

"But then__, then you climbed into the back of the cab.  You sat down in the
back seat, and you began doing the very same deep breathing exercises you're
doing now.  

"I guess some things never change, do they," she murmured.

"He came after us, didn't he?" he rasped out.

"What?" Elizabeth asked, as she wasn't prepared for the sudden change of
subject.

"He came after us, didn't he?" Mulder repeated softly, but in a more normal
voice.

"Yes."

"Oh, God.  Oh, God.  I can't do this, Scully.  I can't.  I don't want to
remember.  Oh, God, Mom, I don't want to remember this," he moaned.  

Scully listened to his breathing, and when she heard him begin to
hyperventilate again, she asked him if he needed to go to the hospital.  "No
_,  no hospital," he insisted, "I'll be okay."

"What if I called Karen?" she asked as means to a compromise.

"Who?" asked Elizabeth.

"Mulder's therapist," Scully explained.  "May I at least call Karen Woods?"

Mulder looked at his wife and knew she was right.  He wasn't going to able to
get through this latest memory without help.  He nodded his acquiescence and
she quickly picked up the phone and dialed the speed number.  Thankfully, it
wasn't used often at all anymore, but Scully was grateful it was there for
emergencies.  

And since Mulder hadn't even put up a fight over calling Dr. Woods, Scully
knew this was an emergency waiting to happen.

He sat quietly and listened to his wife speak softly into the phone.
Elizabeth, on the other hand, stood up and began to pace back and forth.  The
memories were no easier for her to deal with then they were for her son; she
simply managed her physical responses better than he did.  

Scully hung up the phone and said, "Karen will be here within forty-five
minutes.  She suggested we take a bit of a break until she arrives.
Elizabeth?  Why don't you go in and visit with Adam.  I'm sure he'd love for
you to visit with him for a little bit."

"Yes," Elizabeth agreed, "yes, I think that's a fine idea."  She took a deep
breath and nodded toward Scully and then Mulder.  "Please call me when your
doctor arrives."

"Of course, Elizabeth.  Go relax for a little bit."  Scully's medical
knowledge kicked in when she observed how pale Elizabeth had become.  Scully
soon realized this was going to be difficult for the elder Mulder as well, and
she wasn't sure how much either of them would be able to take.

~~~~~

Scully had encouraged Mulder to take one of his infamous twenty minute
catnaps, which he did with little argument.  While he slept, Scully peaked in
on her son and mother-in-law.  

"Grandma Bette?  How come you don't lives in Georgetown with Mommy and Daddy
and me?" asked the small boy curiously.  

"Because my home is in Greenwich, Connecticut, Sweetheart.  Your Grandma
Maggie doesn't live in Georgetown, now does she?" Elizabeth rationalized.

"No, Gam-ma and Gam-pa lives in 'Merry-land.'  But they don't lives so far
away like you do.  I see them lots of time, and I only see you a little time."

"I know, Adam.  I wish I could be closer too, but for now it's best if I live
in Greenwich.  Your daddy and mommy have your Grandma Maggie and Grandpa
Walter nearby to help you all out.  I would probably just get in the way," she
explained mournfully.

Scully wondered if she'd ever heard as much emotion creep out of Elizabeth
Mulder's voice as she'd heard just then.  Scully couldn't recall ever having
heard her mother-in-law make such an admittance.  It actually tore at her
heart a little to think of her mother-in-law actually showing some regret for
a situation no one seemed to have much control over.

The next thing Scully observed was Adam, her beautiful baby boy, reach over to
his grandmother and wrap both of his arms around her neck.  He then rested his
head on her shoulder and whispered, "I love you, Grandma Bette.  You're not in
a way."

Scully smiled to herself and wondered how the hell she was so lucky to have
created such an incredible little boy. 

~~~~~

True to her word, Dr. Karen Woods arrived forty-five minutes later.  Mulder
had woken from his nap about five minutes before and was in the bathroom
washing the sleep off of his face.

Scully briefed Karen on what little she understood to be happening, when
Elizabeth returned to the living room.  Scully introduced the two women to one
another and then offered to make a fresh pot of coffee, but both women
declined.  Scully knew Mulder certainly didn't need any more coffee, so she
decided to forgo the hot drinks for now and settle for some juice.

All of a sudden she felt a little whipped and felt a swig of some orange juice
might help.  She prepared a tray with a pitcher full and glasses.  By the time
she'd reentered the living room, Mulder had returned as well.

He nodded toward Karen and sat down heavily on the couch.  Karen stood off to
the side and watched the dynamics of the Mulder family at work.  It fascinated
her.  

It was almost as if they were performing a ballet which had the dancers moving
too and fro.  She noticed Mulder alternately lean toward his mother every time
she leaned back.  When ever Elizabeth Mulder tried to make some kind of
physical or emotional contact, she saw Mulder physically lean back and/or look
away.

And then Dana Scully-Mulder entered the picture and the dynamics turned
completely around.  Mulder kept leaning in toward his wife, no matter whether
Dana moved toward him or away from him.  He absolutely craved her presence and
he did everything imaginable to attain it.

The only predictable movement in the Mulder dynamic was when young Adam
entered the room with a request for a glass of juice.  All of the adults
automatically gravitated toward the child, and happily, the child demonstrated
only ease and comfort with the attention.

After Scully set Adam up with some juice and instructed him to play quietly in
his room with his toys, she returned and sat down next to her husband.  Scully
looked from Mulder to their son's bedroom and then back to Mulder.

"I'm almost tempted to call Richard and Leslie to pick up Adam," Scully said.
"I don't know if he should be around while we go through this."

"You can't.  Adam's been sick and can't be around Jason," Mulder reminded her.

"Oh, of course," Scully said.

"Why can't Adam be around Jason?" asked Elizabeth.

"Mom, I know I'd mentioned Jason's leukemia to you.  You don't remember?"
Mulder inquired with some annoyance.  

"I suppose not.  It's not as easy for me to remember things now, Fox.  Forgive
me for growing older," Elizabeth admonished.

"I think I'll call my mom," Scully interjected quickly.  "Perhaps she's
available to pick up Adam."  Scully got up and made the phone call, but walked
back to her seat on the couch dejected.  "No one's home, so I left a message."

Karen nodded and tired to reassure her.  "Dana, we'll try to keep everything
under control, but Adam has seen his father in emotional states before.  He'll
be fine.  You'll see."

Scully nodded slightly in acknowledgment, though not necessarily in agreement.
Mulder simply stared ahead for the moment, while Elizabeth had difficulty
looking at anyone in the room.

"Okay, let's get started," instructed Dr. Woods.  "Why am I here, Mulder?"

He looked up at his therapist and shook his head a bit.  "I'm not sure.  All I
know is my mother told me we were running from my father, because he was upset
I was still going to Hebrew class after Sam had been abducted.  She insinuated
he followed us in our car, and that's all."

"That's all," Karen echoed.  "You've related what your mother has told you,
but can you recall what happened that day?"

"I don't know."  Mulder's arms were crossed in front of him as if he were
playing the role of the petulant child.  

"Why did you have an asthma attack if you don't know," Karen asked.

Mulder looked up at Karen and wondered the same thing.  He did not honestly
think he could remember the details of that day, but he did have an ominous
feeling he would.  He felt a heaviness permeate his body at the thought of it.

"I remember the feeling of helplessness, Karen.  I just don't remember the
actual events of that day," he admitted quietly.

"Should he go under the regressive therapy?" asked Scully.  "I'm here now, and
can be of support."

"I don't think Mulder needs to be hypnotized this time," she began and then
stared directly at Mulder and added, "Do you Mulder?"

He hesitated for a moment before he said, "I don't know.  I don't think I want
to remember what happened, Karen."  Mulder then turned to his mother and said
in a quiet but accusing voice, "You remember, but you wouldn't tell me.  You
never would tell me the truth, damn it.  Why?"

"For God's sake, Fox.  Don't you think there's a good reason why you're
telling the doctor you don't want to remember what happened that day?  Have
you ever considered the notion I might actually want to protect you?"

"Protect me?  When the hell did you ever want to protect me?" he cried out in
anguish.  "Damn it, Mom!  You were the one who told me you wanted me to be
taken.  You were the one who told me you chose not to love me to protect
yourself!  Yourself, Mom; never me!  

"You never protected me when he took me to those butchers to experiment on me!
You never even protected Sam!  You never protected either of us; you let them
do those horrible things to us, Mom.  You let them.

"And now you're telling me you've kept secrets because you wanted to protect
me?  Bullshit, Mom.  That has got to be the biggest load of bullshit I've
heard in a long time," he declared angrily.

"Fine," she replied tonelessly.

"No," interjected Karen Woods.  "No, I don't think it's fine.  Do you, Mrs.
Mulder?  Do you really think it's fine?"

Elizabeth looked at the therapist with some surprise.  She hadn't expected any
of the questions to be directed directly toward her, as this was supposed to
be her son's session.  "Well, no, of course I don't really believe it's fine."

"What do you really want to say to him?" Karen asked.

"Honestly?"  When Karen nodded, Elizabeth took a deep breath.  She could not
remember the last time someone had asked her to say what was truthfully on her
mind.  "I would really like to say to him to stop acting like a child, give up
what happened in the past because what 's done is done, and move on with your
life already."

"You think Fox is acting like a child when he tries to find out what happened
to him in the past?" Karen probed.

"Well, yes," she replied tentatively at first, but then gained more confidence
and stated,  "He can't change the past, it obviously upsets him, so why bother
going through all of this?  How can it possibly help him?" 

She turned to Mulder and said, "Fox, you are married and have a beautiful
child.  It's time to think of them.  Don't keep tormenting us with events from
the past."

"Us?" Mulder echoed angrily.  "You don't really mean 'us', do you, Mom?  You
mean yourself.  You want me stop tormenting you with my search for the truth
to my past."

Scully sat as still as a stone, as she was unsure just how much input she
should offer.  She felt herself biting her tongue, for she felt she had a good
deal to say, but then thought better of it.  Scully decided to sit back,
observe quietly, and allow Dr. Woods take the lead. 

Elizabeth, on the other hand, returned her son's piercing stare with one of
her own, and stood up.  She began pacing again, alternately looking directly
at Mulder, and then looking away.  Several moments passed before she spoke.
Finally, she stopped directly in front of her son, took a deep breath, and
stated through clenched teeth, "Yes, damn it.  I want you to stop tormenting
me.  You act as if the past was only your cross to bear.  Well, my darling
son, it was no bed of roses for me either.  It wasn't even one for your
father, if you want to be truly honest about it.  But your self-absorbed,
self-indulgent, and self-seeking outlook on life apparently has limited your
ability to see or feel for anyone beyond your own egomaniacal viewpoint."  

She took a deep breath before she repeated, "So, the answer to your question,
in case you chose not to hear me the first time, is yes.  I want you to stop
tormenting me."

Scully looked at the woman awestruck.  She wasn't sure if she felt more
admiration for Elizabeth in her ability to cut straight to the heart of the
matter to tell Mulder exactly what was on her mind, or if she wanted to kill
the woman for seemingly suffering from exactly the same self-centered malady
she'd just accused her son of possessing.

Karen Woods, meanwhile, had scribbled some notes.  She quietly reviewed them,
all the while glancing at her patient to make sure he was handling the tirade
sufficiently.  She expected to hear Mulder explode at his mother's
accusations, but all she witnessed was a concession of defeat.  Karen watched
Fox Mulder literally deflate before her very eyes.

The woman still had that much power over him.

"It appears self-centeredness runs in the family, Mrs. Mulder," Karen said
with an even, non-judgmental tone.

Dr. Woods witnessed a second Mulder sigh heavily in defeat.

"I don't mean to be.  I think it's a matter of survival," Elizabeth admitted
quietly.

"And you don't think Fox has a right to survive?" Karen asked quietly.

"Of course he has a right to survive," she responded, and then hesitated
before she added, "but does it have to be at my expense?"

Scully could no longer sit silently and turned to her mother-in-law and said
quietly, "You're his mother, Elizabeth.  Think.  Would you expect me to do no
less for Adam?"

When Scully put it in that perspective, Elizabeth could not help but shake her
head in despair.  "I gave up so much of myself.  I gave up so much to them.
They took my children from me.  They took my life from me.

"But he was my husband.  He was a good man, once.  I loved him, once.  I had
to believe he was basically a good man or why would I have loved him.  He
thought he was doing the right thing.  He'd convinced me we were doing the
right thing.  But after they took Samantha, he was so angry.  He felt duped,
betrayed, and he took it out on you.

"He'd even begun to take it out on me when he was drunk enough," she added as
an aside.

"Ohmigod," Mulder whispered.  "He hurt you too."

Just then, the doorbell rang.  Scully stood up to answer the door and found
her mother and Walter Skinner standing in front of her.

"Hi Mom, Walter," she said as she leaned over to kiss them both in greeting.

"How's he doing?" asked Walter. 

"He's about the same since I'd called and filled you in on the voice mail.
Karen seemed to think everything would be fine, but I'm glad you're here all
the same."

Both mother and step-father nodded in quiet acknowledgment and entered the
living room, while Scully went to get Adam ready to leave.  "We've just come
to pick up Adam.  We don't mean to disturb you," said Maggie earnestly.

"Mom, Walter, it's okay.  You're welcomed to stay," Mulder said.

"No, Mulder.  We'll just collect Adam, and let you get on with your business,"
replied a slightly uncomfortable Walter.

When Scully returned, however, it was without Adam. "He fell asleep.  He felt
a little warm.  I hope he hasn't relapsed with the flu," she said.  "I'm so
sorry to have made you come out here for nothing."

"Oh, sweetheart, don't be sorry.  I hope he's okay.  Call me if you need me to
stay with him, okay?  We'll be going," Maggie said.  

"Please, stay," Mulder called out.

"Fox, do you really think it's wise to have all of us here?" Maggie asked.

"If Adam's not feeling well, I would really like someone here to help take
care of him so Scully can stay out here with me.  Besides, she's been a little
under the weather herself of late," Mulder explained.

Scully shot a glare at him, because she did not want him announcing the news
of her pregnancy now, under these conditions.  He looked at her and his eyes
told her he understood and he wasn't about to say another thing.  

"Mom, Walter, please sit.  Mulder's right, you should stay," Scully said.

"Elizabeth, do you have any objections to our staying?" Maggie asked.

The elder Mulder smiled at Maggie Skinner's thoughtfulness.  "I have no
problem with you or Walter staying, but I honestly don't know if you'll  be
terribly comfortable with what's going to be discussed."

Karen Woods cleared her throat and invited the Skinners to take a seat.  She,
herself, wasn't sure if she'd have asked them to stay, but this was Fox
Mulder's party, and he could invite anyone he wanted.

"Elizabeth, you were about to share with us what happened.  Fox had said he
hurt you too?  When did this happen?" Karen asked in an attempt to get the
session back on track.

Elizabeth nodded silently, and then said, "He'd followed us to the Temple.
You and I were laughing so much in the car with relief that we'd gotten away,
we hadn't noticed he'd gotten into his own car and followed us.

"I parked the car and walked you into the building.  We went into the
sanctuary, because Rabbi Feldman had instructed you to join him there for that
class so he could show you where your torah portion was in the actual torah."
Mulder nodded his head tentatively as he began to remember the events of that
day.

"You'd asked me if I wanted to see it too, and I said 'yes,' so I followed you
into the sanctuary.  Ironic.  On any other day, I would have simply dropped
you off in the front of the building and drove off.  I'd have escaped the
whole ordeal and perhaps none of it would have happened.  But you wanted me to
see it so badly, and I could feel Nana's presence urging me to do this for
you.  So, I'd said, 'yes.'"

Karen remained silent.  She knew Mulder's memories of that day were becoming
clearer and clearer.  The doctor knew she had to let her patient go at his own
pace in responding to Elizabeth's narrative.

"When we walked in," Mulder began softly, almost fearfully, "I saw Rabbi
Feldman up on the bema."

"Bema?" echoed Maggie automatically.  

"It's like an altar," Skinner whispered to his wife.

"What happened next, Mulder?" prodded Karen.

Mulder's eidetic memory began to kick in and he went on to recount the event.
"I remember saying good morning and pointing out that Mom was with me.  I
asked him if it was okay for Mom to see the torah too, and he said it would be
all right.  

"The rabbi motioned for us to both come up to the bema, where he'd already
placed a torah.  He'd been scrolling it to the proper section, and when he'd
arrived at my portion, he pointed it out.  I hadn't learned to chant it yet,
but I was able to read it a little bit for my Mom.  

"I remember being so excited about reading it straight from the torah.  The
rabbi had told the class it was really hard to do, 'cause there weren't any
vowel notations, so the fact that I was able to read it was really exciting to
me.  I remember I kept looking over at Mom to see if she was proud of me.

"I think you were, Mom," he said as he finally made eye-contact with
Elizabeth.  "I think you were actually proud of me, weren't you?"

Dana sat with her heart in her mouth and tried to will Elizabeth Mulder to say
the right thing.  She silently pleaded with the woman to simply say the
'right' thing.

"Yes, Fox.  I was proud of you," Elizabeth replied.

There was an audible sigh of relief from all of the adults seated in the room,
as if none of them were sure Elizabeth would say the proper thing.

"What happened next, Mulder," Karen asked gently, for she knew the warm fuzzy
feeling Mulder was now feeling would soon be replaced by angry, frightened
emotions.

Everyone saw it.  The almost gleeful expression Mulder wore upon hearing his
mother's admission of pride in him turned dramatically dark.  Even his eyes
turned a shade darker as the effort to recall those past events became even
more taxing on him physically.

"What happened next," Karen prodded.

"He came in."

After some moments of silence, Karen gently repeated her question, "What
happened next?"

Mulder pallor then turned a sickly alabaster, and his eyes begin to roll to
the back of his head.  Scully quickly pushed his head down between his knees
in an effort to revive him quickly.  When she eventually heard him moaning,
she cautioned him to rise slowly.  

Several more minutes passed before Mulder was able to speak.  Karen waited
until his color appeared more normal, and then encouraged him to recount what
had happened.

"He came directly toward us," Mulder began in a whisper.  "I remember looking
at him, and thinking how ugly he looked.  He had the ugliest, angriest
expression on his face.  I'd seen that expression before, right before he'd
__, he' punish me.  

"He came forward and when he finally reached the bema, he grabbed my arm and
pulled, hard.  He wrenched my shoulder out of the socket, which of course was
something he'd done before.  I remember thinking he was going to dislocate my
arm before he even grabbed me, but knowing it was going to happen didn't stop
it from hurting any less.  I couldn't move at this point, it had hurt so
badly.

"But then, instead of just continuing to beat me to a pulp, he grabbed you,"
he remembered as he looked at Elizabeth for confirmation.   Upon seeing his
mother give an almost imperceptible nod, he continued.  "He started slapping
you, and then hitting you, harder and harder."  Mulder took a deep breath
before he could continue.  

"Rabbi Feldman began shouting for him to stop, but he didn't listen.  The
bastard just kept hitting you, and then he began punching you.  Oh God, Mom,"
Mulder winced at the memories.  

"Rabbi Feldman finally moved toward Dad and tried to pull him off of you, but
that just pissed Dad off more.  Dad shoved Rabbi Feldman so hard into the
podium, he knocked it over.   

"Even though the rabbi was a small man, he fell with a really loud thud.  I
remember thinking to myself how the word 'thud' was so appropriate for that
sound, because it truly did sound just like it.

"I tried to reach out to the Rabbi, but my shoulder had hurt so much, I could
barely move without screaming out in pain.  So, once again I sat nearby,
helpless, and not be able to help people in need.  I couldn't believe how loud
the noise was when the podium fell.  Oh __!

"__Oh __, shit!" Mulder cried out.  "Shit! It was the one with the torah on
it.  The torah ripped when it fell from the podium.  Oh God, that sonofabitch
not only hurt you and the Rabbi, but he defaced a  two hundred  year old
torah!"

"He hurt you too, Mulder," Karen reminded.

"But he'd hurt the Rabbi.  He was an innocent victim, and he desecrated the
torah.  And I don't remember him ever beating Mom up before in front of me,"
Mulder countered.

"And he hurt you again, Mulder," Karen reminded yet again.

"But he always hurt me, Karen."

"So, that means you should sweep this incident under the rug?" Karen queried. 

"It was more evil to beat up the Rabbi and Mom, and to destroy the torah,"
Mulder replied.

"Your pain doesn't count," Karen probed.

"No.  Yes.  I mean, yes, it counts, but it wasn't unusual for him to beat up
on me.  I was used to it, you know?" 

"So, you're saying since it was commonplace for your father to physically beat
you, less weight should be put on that incident than on the abuse your mother
and the rabbi received, in addition to the desecration of the torah."

Mulder looked at his therapist while he tried hard to absorb her words.  After
a few seconds, he looked at her and stated, "I am nuts, aren't I?"

"There are times, Mulder, when your ideas are certainly unique," Karen said
tongue in cheek.  She then turned to the elder Mulder and said, "Mrs. Mulder,
do you now see why it's important for Fox to delve into the past?  

"Whatever was done to him during his childhood has had a direct effect on his
ability to function in the present.  He'll continue to have difficulty dealing
with the present if he can't reconcile what had happened to him in the past."

"It's painful to be constantly reminded of all my failures, Dr. Woods,"
Elizabeth said.

"Yes, I'm sure it is.  It would probably be helpful for you to find someone to
talk to about it.  I'd be more than happy to check with my colleagues and help
you find a counselor in Greenwich," Karen suggested.

"A counselor?  Me?  I don't need a psychiatrist, my dear woman.  I'm not
crazy," admonished Elizabeth.

"It must be genetic," muttered Scully under her breath.

"What, Dane?" asked Mulder.

Scully smiled when she heard him use his endearment, Dane, because she knew it
meant he was more at ease with the situation.  She was sure Mulder's feelings
weren't totally resolved, but at least he now had an inkling to his past which
could account for his initial inability to read the Hebrew.

"Okay, folks," Karen Woods said, as if reading Scully's mind.  "I think we can
call it a day.  Mulder, we're not nearly finished with this yet, you do know
that, don't you?"

"Aw, Karen, you just want to redecorate your family room with the fees you get
from my sessions, that's all," Mulder replied lightly.

"Kitchen, Mulder.  We're going for the kitchen remodeling this year.  Last
year was the family room," Karen replied in jest.  "Seriously, Mulder, you
ain't cured yet, and I expect to see you in the office one day this week.  How
about __," she paused as she pulled out her appointment book, "Thursday?
Twelve-fifteen?"

"Fine, Karen.  Make me spend my lunch hour pouring my guts out to you," he
replied.

"It's my lunch hour too, Mulder, so you'll get no sympathy from me," she
retorted with a smile.

Mulder chuckled and began to stand up when he suddenly felt his knees buckle
from under him. 

"Whoa, G-Man," Scully called out as she attempted to support him.  Walter was
up as quick as a flash as well, and moved to the opposite side of Scully in
order to prevent Mulder from falling.

"I guess that took a little more out of me than I expected," admitted Mulder.

"C'mon, Mulder.  Let's get you to bed so you can lay down for a little while
before dinner, okay?  Walter, help me please?" Scully asked.

"Go on, Dana.  I can manage my son-in-law." Walter's strong arms wrapped
around Mulder's shoulder's and waist as he helped the younger man into the
bedroom.  "You going to be all right? Skinner asked as he pulled Mulder's
sneakers off.

"Yeah, I think so," Mulder replied.  

"You want to sleep in the jeans, or do you want them off?" 

Mulder considered his response and realized Walter Skinner had seen him in
much more compromising positions before.  "Off, I think," he replied.

Mulder unbuckled his jeans and began to shimmy out of them when Walter went to
the end of the bed and pulled Mulder's slacks at his ankles.  The jeans were
off in moments and Mulder was able to get comfortable wearing just his cotton
boxers.  

"Stay for awhile?" Mulder asked groggily.  

"If you want," Skinner replied as he pulled the comforter over Mulder's body.

"Yeah, Dane might need you,'' he replied cryptically with a yawn.  He was
asleep almost instantly.

~~~~~
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Date: 23 Nov 1998 15:54:41 -0800
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Subject: New! Life Cycles XIV: Coming of Age 6/6

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Life Cycles XIV:  Coming of Age
by Susan Proto  ([email protected])

Disclaimers in Part 1

Part 6/6

Mulder and Dana had traded places.  Now he was in the bathroom throwing his
guts up, while she was pacing outside the bathroom.

Well, perhaps pacing wasn't the most accurate word.  

Plodding.  

Lumbering.  

Waddling.  

Dana Scully-Mulder, who was due to give birth to their second child in less
then two weeks, waited anxiously while her husband knelt hunched over a toilet
bowl.  He was frightened to death at the prospect of  'becoming a man.'

As Dana paced and waddled, she recounted in her mind all it had taken for her
husband to get to this point in his life.  For the last seven months he'd
attended first weekly, and then monthly, therapy sessions with Dr. Woods.  

He'd struggled to overcome his ambivalent feelings toward his Elizabeth, whom
he discovered was just as much a victim as he was of  William Mulder's
physical and emotional abuse.  Once he'd reconciled himself to the notion his
mother was not totally in control of her own life, much less his, he'd found
it easier to forgive, (if not totally accept nor understand,) her methods of
dealing with the stress of life in the Mulder household.

She recalled the weekly 'Trope' sessions with Rabbi Gerry, and having listened
first to Mulder's frustrated ranting at not being able to do what had once
come so easily.  Dana then smiled to herself as she remembered the night her
husband had come home practically dancing in the doorway.  The light bulb had
finally turned on.  Somehow, somewhere, they'd found the key, and the memory
had  returned.  Mulder was finally able read the Hebrew with ease.

Next, however, had come the chanting.

Frustration had abounded and nerves had become frayed once again.  Dana  had
feared the man she'd married was literally going to come apart at the seams,
if he didn't overcome his fear of singing the torah portions.  He'd felt
stupid, he'd felt overwhelmed, he'd felt embarrassed, he'd felt foolish.

He'd felt like he wanted to quit.  He didn't quit, but he had  needed to
release the tension he'd felt in some manner.  

And he had.

Mulder had taken it out on Dana, which was the last thing a husband should do
to his pregnant wife who was also in the middle of searching for a larger home
for their growing family to move into.  

But he had.

And Dana, as compassionate and as understanding as she was, had grown
increasingly more annoyed at the way Mulder was treating her.  She'd felt as
if she'd become his whipping boy, and she'd grown tired of it quickly.  She'd
done the only thing she could think of to get his attention.

She packed a suitcase for herself and Adam, left a note for Mulder so he'd
know where to find her when he'd come to his senses, and went to stay with
Maggie and Walter.

Scully wasn't absolutely sure what Mulder's reaction had been when he'd
arrived home to the empty townhouse, but she had an inkling.  She'd come to
find out later her neighbor, Mrs. Ingstrom, had heard so much noise coming out
of the townhouse across the way, she'd nearly called the police.  Finally,
things had settled down, and she'd observed Mr. Mulder carrying a large trash
bag, as well as a broken lamp, to the Townhouse refuse area.

Apparently, Scully had gained her husband's attention.

Things had changed after that, and Scully had moved back home the next day.
In fact, it was that day the two of them had discovered their new house.  It
was the Monday of President's Day weekend, and both Scully and Mulder had
taken it as a personal day to be home with Adam.  

They'd been checking the real estate section, as had become their habit, when
something had caught Mulder's eye.

"Dane?" he'd called out to her.  "Come check this out, and tell me if this
isn't Kismet or something."

She'd read the ad placed for the house in an area not too far from where they
currently lived, which was perfect, since both husband and wife really did
love the area they'd been living in for the last few years.  

"Call the Realtor, now!" she'd insisted.  "Tell them not to show it to anyone
else!"

"Dane, they're not going to listen to me," he'd replied with a hint of
exasperation.  He'd couldn't help but wonder if all pregnant women expected
the world to do their bidding, or was it just his pregnant wife.  Mulder had,
wisely, kept this thought to himself as he'd picked up the phone to call.

They had gone to see the house (which, miraculously, the Realtor hadn't shown
to anyone else that holiday afternoon,) and had totally and completely fell in
love with it.  It had three bedrooms, though not huge, certainly larger than
what they were living in now.  

It had a beautiful, sunny eat-in kitchen which looked out onto a small,
enclosed backyard.  There was also a small, but very functional, formal dining
room area.  The family room was to the right side of the staircase and a
formal living area was to the left.  There was even a small, finished room in
the basement which Mulder had immediately adopted as his own.

Of course, the creme de la creme had been the laundry area on the main floor.
No more schlepping loads of laundry up and down two  flights of stairs.  Dana
and Mulder had known this was their home the moment they saw it.  Now, all
they had to do was buy it.

It had taken some haggling, but they did it.  They'd bought their dream house
at a price that was pretty close to what they could comfortably afford
(especially if Mulder raided the money his father had left him,) and they were
scheduled to close around Dana's due date.  

It hadn't been their ideal date, but they weren't given much of a choice.  The
current owner's new home wouldn't be ready until then, so the Mulder's hands
were pretty much tied.  

But that worry had to wait until two weeks from now.  Today's worry was
getting Mulder out of the bathroom so he'd be able get to the Temple on time.
Scully had arranged for her mom and Walter to pick the three of them up, since
she'd had a feeling Mulder might not be in any condition to drive.

Scully smiled to herself.  Could she call 'em, or what?

Mulder finally emerged from the bathroom in his tee shirt and boxers.   They
were scheduled to leave in the next twenty minutes and he hadn't even put on
his shirt or slacks.  Of course, judging from Mulder's pallor, it was probably
a very good thing he hadn't.

"Hey G-Man, you gonna be okay?" Dana asked gently.

Mulder shook his head at first.  He looked at her and felt as though the tears
which had welled up in his eyes were going to start falling any minute, and he
wouldn't be able to stop.  Mulder could not remember the last time he was this
nervous about something.

"Dane?  What the hell have I gotten myself into?  I can't do this.  I really,
really can't go through with this," he muttered over and over again.

"Yes, you can, Mulder.  You have been working so hard to reach this day.  

"Fox," she said, using his first name only in situations when she really,
really wanted his attention, "you've earned this day.  Don't talk yourself out
of this.  You deserve the joy you're going to feel."

"I'm so scared," he whispered.

"I know."  Scully reached over to draw him into a hug.  "You are going to do
just fine, but if you don't put some pants on soon, you're going to give the
little old ladies in the third row a helluva good show."

Mulder looked down at himself and gasped. "Jeez, I didn't realize __, oh God,
Dane _, I didn't even realize I wasn't dressed yet!  What the hell is wrong
with me?"  He quickly reached over for the navy blue dress slacks and drew
them on.  

Scully handed him the crisp, white dress shirt and watched as he fumbled with
the buttons.  "Here, let me do it," she offered as she deftly buttoned each
one.  Next, she reached over to the dresser bureau and picked up a small box.

"Mom wanted you to have these today.  They were my father's cufflinks, and she
hoped you would wear them today as a way of having him be a part of this day,"
Scully explained.

"Oh, Dane, they're beautiful," he replied as he looked at the gold cufflinks
with an engraved anchor in each.  "I'd be honored."  He watched as his wife
put her father's cufflinks in place.  

"Perfect," she murmured.  He readily agreed and placed a tender kiss on top of
her head.  "Okay, now where's the tie I got you?"

"Aw, Dane, that one is nice, but it's so __," he paused for a second, and then
warily said, "boring."

"Mulder, you're going to your Bar Mitzvah today; you're supposed to be a
little bit more conservative."

"Conservative does not have to translate to boring," he complained.

"Umm, in your case, G-Man, yes, it does.  Now where's the tie I bought you?"  

He pointed to the closet and she asked him to go get it.  He walked over
somewhat dejectedly and opened the closet door.   As he reached in, he noticed
something wrapped in tissue paper hanging from the tie rack.

"Dane?" he asked with just a hint of anticipation.

"Open it up, Spooky," she chuckled.

He pulled the package off the rack and ripped off the tissue paper.  Mulder
was delighted to see a magnificent Escher print tie, with the incredible
metamorphosis of fish into seemingly alien type bugs.  It was perfect, and
anything but boring.

"I figured today was your day of change, you deserved a tie fitting for the
occasion," Dana offered.

"Thank you, Dane.  It's wonderful.  It's perfect," he said as he tied it.  

When he finished, Scully looked at him, and of course couldn't resist fiddling
with the just tied tie, which, in turn, drove Mulder to distraction.  He
wondered if all pregnant women felt compelled to treat their husbands as if
they were children.

Just then the doorbell rang, and they heard Adam rush to the door to answer
it.  They could hear him call out, "Who's there?"  Mulder and Scully realized
it was Maggie and Walter, because Adam excitedly opened the door.

"Hi Gam-ma!  Hi Gam-pa!  We're goin' to Temple to have a party for my Daddy!"
Adam excitedly announced.

"We know, sweetheart!" responded an equally excited Maggie.  "We're all so
happy for your daddy!  Where are Mommy and Daddy, Angel?"

"In the bedroom.  Daddy was 'frowing' up before, but now he's good," informed
Adam.

"Throwing up?" repeated Walter.

"Walter, it's probably just nerves."

"I'm sure you're right, but all the same, I want to see he's all right."

At that moment Dana and Mulder walked out into the living room.  Both Maggie
and Walter were reassured by Mulder's appearance and realized he was just
nervous.  Mulder did go over to Maggie to thank her for the cuff links.

"Mom, they're beautiful.  Thank you for giving me the honor of wearing them
today," he said.  

"Oh Fox, thank you for honoring the Captain's memory by wearing them," she
said as she reached up to adjust his tie.

Mulder rolled his eyes slightly as he concluded it wasn't pregnant women, just
Scully women, who enjoyed treating him like he was five years old.  He glanced
over at his father-in-law and noticed a certain all-knowing twinkle in the
older man's eyes.

Both men began to chuckle a bit, and when Maggie and Dana both asked what was
so funny, the two men simply laughed even harder.  Normally Dana would have
been annoyed at being kept in the dark, but she was so grateful to see Mulder
finally relaxed, she decided not to push it.

"Are we ready to go?" asked Dana.

"In a minute," answered Walter.  He turned to Mulder and said, "I have
something I'd like to give you."

Mulder looked at him with a puzzled expression and saw his father-in-law pull
out a small velvet jewelry box.  Skinner handed the younger man the box, and
Mulder opened it.  Inside was a tie clasp in the shape of a mezuzah, the
symbol which held a tiny piece of paper with a reading from the torah.

"My parents gave me this tie clasp on the day of my Bar Mitzvah, Fox.  I'd
very much like to pass it on to you," Walter said with a rush of emotion.

Mulder stood speechless.  It was one thing to be given William Scully's
cufflinks, but this was almost too much.  "I don't know what to say," he
choked. 

"Just say you'll wear it," answered Walter.

"Of course I'll wear it.  I'd be honored to wear it.  God __," Mulder rambled
as he clumsily worked to put the tie clasp in place.  

"Here, I'll do it," said Walter as he deftly put the clasp on Mulder's tie.
"Interesting tie, Mulder," he muttered with a smile.

"It was a gift.  Just like this is.  Dad, thank you.  Thank you so much.  I
don't know if I could ever explain to you how much this means to me," Mulder
began.  

"I mean, you're giving me a piece of yourself; of your childhood and faith,
and it just means so much," Mulder said as he choked back the tears.

"You're welcome.  I'm glad you see it that way, because that's how it was
meant.  Fox, no matter what happens today, I just wanted to let you know how
proud I am of you," Walter said as he reached to shake Mulder's hand.  When he
clasped it, Walter then pulled his son-in-law into a hug and gave him a
respectable slap on the back.

"Okay, let's go.  We don't want to be late," Maggie said.

"We don't?" mumbled Mulder to himself as he put on his suit jacket and walked
to the door.

~~~~~

The small sanctuary was packed.  Mulder wasn't sure if he was going to faint
before or after he stepped up to the bema, but he was certain the
lightheadedness he was feeling would translate into his becoming acquainted
with the carpeting.  

He looked straight ahead and saw Rabbi Gerry in his beautiful tallit and skull
cap.  Mulder, in turn, clutched at the small velvet bag which held his great
grandfather's tallit; the same tallit which served as the chuppah for Dana and
Mulder's wedding day.

Elizabeth arrived earlier and presented Mulder with a newly embroidered
yarmulke.  He chuckled as he noted the small 'X's' scattered throughout the
design.  Mulder was touched when his mother admitted to embroidering it
herself as a small token for his Bar Mitzvah.

He found himself hugging her in thanks, but when it was time to let go, he
found himself grasping her even tighter.  "Mom?" he blurted out, but he found
he couldn't continue. He was afraid he'd receive the wrong answer, and there
was one thing he didn't need just before he went up to the bema, it was the
wrong answer.

"Go, Fox.  Go be a Bar Mitzvah," was all she said.

~~~~~

Mulder moved slowly up the steps to the bema.  He shook hands with Rabbi Gerry
and the Temple President.  He sat down in one of the chairs that was set up
near the Ark which held the four torahs.  

Mulder listened with half an ear as Gerry Ginsburg led the congregation in the
singing of Mi  Chamocha, which echoed the songs Moses and other Israelites
sang at the shores of the Red Sea as they were saved from the oppression of
the Egyptians.  

Then, during the second part of the service, Gerry led the congregation in a
prayer for peace for not only the Jewish people, but for the entire world.  

Finally, it was time to open the Ark and take out the torah.  Mulder realized
his hands were sweating profusely, and he felt his breathing was becoming
labored.

*Shayner boychik, you seem a little nervous, no?* asked the sweetly accented
voice of  unconditional love.

*Nana?* he thought to himself.  *Nana, you're here?*

*Oy, Foxila,* she replied with a chuckle, *as if I would be anyplace else on
the day mine aynekel became a Bar Mitzvah!*

*But, Nana, I'm so scared.*

*Nu?  So you're scared!  But you can do it mine shayner boychikel, you can!
You will!*

*But what if I can't, Nana?  What if I go up there and I can't remember
anything?  What if I can't remember the chant?  What if __?*

*Shah, sweet boy.  You will be fine.  I'm here, and I won't let you fall, I
promise.  I love you, mine Foxila, as your beautiful Dana loves you, and your
Adam, and Maggie and Walter, and __,*

*__ Don't say it, Nana.  If she can't say it, I don't want to hear it, okay?*

*Okay, mine sweet boychik.  As long as you know you are loved by so many good
and wonderful people.  And mine new little beauty will be joining us soon.
Oy, I can't wait!  Oy, she'll be so beauty-ful!  So beauty-ful!* kvelled Nana.

*She?  Nana, we're having a girl?* he thought excitedly to himself.  Scully,
ever the pragmatic one, had wanted to know what the baby's gender was, but Fox
had wanted it to be a surprise.  Yet, now that Nana let the cat out of the
bag, he was beside himself!  A girl.  A daughter!

*Oops!  I guess I said too much!  Forgive me, Foxila.  I didn't mean to spoil
a surprise!* Nana apologized.

*No, Nana, it's okay.  A daughter, really?* he asked again.

*Yes, sweet boy, a daughter for you and your Dana.*

Suddenly, Mulder heard the Rabbi calling his name, and Mulder stood and walked
slowly to the podium where the torah laid.  When Gerry met Mulder's gaze,
Gerry expected to see some trepidation, some fear.

Instead he saw a beaming Fox Mulder stand before him who exuded a confidence
he'd never quite seen before.  If Gerry hadn't known any better, he would have
sworn there was some kind of divine intervention.

Little did Rabbi Ginsburg know, someone was looking directly over his
shoulder, and she had to stand on her tiptoes to do it.

~~~~~

"I have invited 'Shual' Mulder, to join me on the bema today. 'Shual' is the
Hebrew word which means Fox, and our 'Shual' has been working very hard to
meet the challenge of this day; the day of his Bar Mitzvah.

"Now, at Fox's request, we have gone back in time and Fox has learned the
torah portion and haftarah that would have been his to do on his original Bar
Mitzvah date of October 19, 1974, in the month of Heshvan, the year 5735.

"They are the same texts Fox had begun studying over twenty-five years ago,
but due to unforeseen  circumstances, he had to wait till today to be called
to the torah.  Fox will begin chanting the story of Noah and the Ark.  He will
be reading from "Noach, Genesis 6:9 through 11:32."  

Rabbi Ginsburg nodded toward his pupil and Fox stood in front of the opened
scroll.  He began chanting softly, tentatively the first lines, "Eleh toldot
Noach Noach ish tsadik tamim hayah bedorotav et-ha'Elohim hithalech Noach."  

The members of the congregation were able to read the English translation of
Mulder's torah portion, which began, 'These are the chronicles of Noah.  Noah
was a righteous man, faultless in his generation.  Noah walked with God.'

He continued to chant the story of how the 'world was corrupt before God, and
the land was filled with crime.'  As Scully read the translated portion, all
she could think about was how appropriate this tale was for her husband to
recite.

He sang about how Noah was called upon by God to build an ark, one with a
skylight that is slanted.

He sang about the flood that would destroy all life that remained on the land,
but that God will keep His promise and keep Noah, Noah's wife and children
safe.  

He sang about God's command to bring two of each kind, a male and a female,
into the ark to live with Noah.  

And as he continued to chant, Mulder's voice became stronger and more
confident.  It was if he were telling of his own struggle to right the world's
problems. 

As Scully read and listened to her husband chant with a new found strength and
conviction, she wondered if Noah faced all of the obstacles her own husband
faced in taking care of the world's ills.  Surely people looked upon Noah as
being somewhat of a madman for building this huge boat?  

Surely not all who listened to his explanations of God's commands believed
him. Scully suddenly realized there were none who believed him, which was why
there were no other humans but Noah and his family on the ark, along with
pairs of the world's animal kingdoms.

Scully smiled to herself as she thought, *And  people thought Fox Mulder was
Spooky.*   

Time passed quickly.  She realized Gerry and Mulder alternated parts, when she
realized Mulder had come to the end of his Torah portion by chanting,
"Vayihi'u yemey-Terach chamesh shanim umatayim shanah vayamot Terach beCharan.

"All of Terach's days were 205 years, and Terach died in Charan."

He sighed a huge sigh of relief, and was allowed to sit down for a few
moments.

When Gerry called Mulder forward again, it was so Mulder could chant his
haftarah portion.  The rabbi instructed everyone to turn to the page on which
Isaiah 54:1 began, and Mulder was going to chant the section to 55:5.

Once again, Scully listened carefully as her husband began, at first
tremulously, and then stronger and more melodious.  As she followed along in
the English translation, Dana was particularly taken with the words, "This is
like the waters of Noah to me:  I swore that the waters of Noah would never
again submerge the earth; similarly, I swore that I would not be angry with
you and would not rebuke you. 

"For the mountains may depart, and the hills may be removed; but My kindness
will not depart from you, nor will My covenant or peace be withdrawn, says
God, who has compassion on you."

All Dana prayed for at this point in their lives is for her husband to finally
find some peace.  He worked so hard to get to this place in finding his faith
again. She prayed Mulder could find some comfort in knowing his God; their
God, is a forgiving and loving God.

Scully startled a bit when she felt someone clasp her hand.  She looked
around, but didn't see anyone other than her mother to the right side of her
and Elizabeth to her left.  Dana felt a slight uneasiness until she heard a
familiar voice in her head.

*Shayner maydelah , he's going to be fine, you know.*

Dana smiled as she concentrated her thoughts, *I know, Nana.  He really is
going to be fine, isn't he.*

Dana felt the warmth of the old woman's hands on her own and Dana managed to
return a squeeze to relay her love.  Dana then placed her own hands on the
roundness of  her belly, and rubbed it lovingly.

~~~~~

Mulder finished his Haftarah portion and accepted the congratulations of the
Rabbi and Walter, who was  now the only other person on the bema with him and
the rabbi.  Walter was called up to chant an alleyah, a blessing, and stood as
proudly as any father would stand with his son.  

Walter shook Rabbi Ginsburg's hand and then Fox's, but quickly drew him into
an emotional embrace.  Fox returned the hug with obvious pride and affection,
and then watched as Walter returned to his seat.

Gerry moved back to take a seat and left Mulder standing at the podium.  It
was time to make the speech.  It was hard enough for Mulder to learn all of
the torah portions; it was harder to write his Bar Mitzvah speech.

What does a thirty-eight year old man, with a five year old child and a second
on the way, have to say about becoming a man?  He didn't want it to be trite,
but he didn't want it to be so serious that it brought everyone's spirits
down.

Today was a celebration, and he didn't want to do or say anything that would
put a damper on the day.  So, that's how he began his speech.

"Today, is a celebration.  It's a day I had once looked forward to over
twenty-five years ago, and finally got to see fulfilled today.

"I stand before you a man of thirty-eight years.  I have lived a life that
many would say was filled with strife and hardships, and on any other day I
might have agreed.

"But, today is a celebration.  Today, I choose to remember a time when I
shared my life with a child of God; a spirit so bright and so loving, she was
truly one of the lights of my life.  My sister _," Mulder's voice cracked
slightly at this point, and he needed to take an extra moment before he could
continue.

"__ My sister, Samantha, was the first to show me how to give and to receive
love unconditionally; without judgment.  Without ever asking anything in
return.  I haven't seen my sister in over twenty-five years, but the gifts she
gave me and the lessons she taught me are carried in my heart forever.

"Today is a celebration.  I look out and see my mother who I have come to
learn so much about in these last few months.  We've traveled a rocky road
together, my mother and I, but at least it's been together.  I know it's been
hard for her; it's been hard for me.  But I also know the choices she made in
the past made me the person I am today, and though some of those choices may
have created some rough edges around my being, they also sculpted the fire and
determination I have in seeking the truth, and ultimately, finding it.

"Today is a celebration.  I look out and see but a handful of people whom I am
proud to call friend.  Though there are only a few of you, it is the rarity
that which makes you all the more precious.  Richard, Leslie, Rachael, and
Jason, I value your friendship and treasure your companionship more than I
could possibly ever tell you.  

"Riichi and Mashiko, I am so grateful for your camaraderie and support.  You
especially Riichi, have proven time and time again to be a giving and valued
friend.

"Karen, you, my friend, and yes, I do consider you a friend, have helped me
regain my sanity back.  I thank you my friend."

Mulder then turned around to face Gerry Ginsburg and said, "And you, Rabbi,
you have helped me to regain my soul and my faith.  I thank you my friend.

"Today is a celebration.  As Noah was instructed by God to build an Ark and
bring the animals onto it, two by two, I discovered that I could not go
through life without a partner.  God knows I must have done something right in
my life, because He saw fit to bring me my soul mate.

"And before I even knew I was in love with her, her own mother knew, and chose
to adopt me as if I were her own.  Maggie, I don't know what I would have done
without you during those dark times, but even more, I am so grateful to have
your love and support during the light ones too.  Today is a celebration,
Maggie Skinner, and I am so grateful you are here to celebrate it.

"And then there was a man I feared even being in the same room with, and not
because I thought he would harm me.  No, I thought he found it impossible to
accept me or respect me as I'd accepted and respected him.  I felt it was
easier to pretend he was an enemy than to try and gain his confidence in me.

"I'd never had a true male role model to look up to before I met this man, and
the idea of it scared me.  Who could have known this very same man would
become not only my mentor, and my friend, but also my father-in-law.  God was
truly smiling on me the day He decided to bring you and Maggie together.  I
need you so much, and the fact that you allow me to need you is a gift I can
never repay.  Thank you, Walter.  Thank you, Dad."

Mulder had to stop for a minute and take a few breaths at this point.  He
looked and watched Maggie and Walter do the same.  Mulder was a bit afraid to
look at his wife.  He was afraid if he did, he wouldn't be able to finish his
speech.

He took one last breath, looked at his son, and smiled the smile of the Gods.
He spoke with a gentleness he reserved for his first born, "You are my gift
from God, Adam Mulder.  You are the reason I searched for my faith, and I
thank you my beautiful boy.  Someday, you may choose to find your faith in the
synagogue or in the church, but where ever you choose to find God, sweetheart,
it's okay.  A very wise, wonderful woman told me, it doesn't matter if you
find God in another house; at least you'll have found God.

"Thank you, Adam, my son, for giving me a reason to find my faith again.  I
love you my son, my son.  I love you so much."

"I love you too, Daddy," answered the sweet, resonant voice from the first
row.  Mulder smiled in reply.  

"And thank you, Nana, because I know you're here with us too, for helping me
realize how important faith in God and in our loved ones is to my life.

"Today is a celebration!  And I am the luckiest man in the world to be able to
celebrate this day with the most special lady in the world.  My Scully.
Always, always my Scully.

"The first time I thought of you in that way was the day I thought I'd lost
you forever.  That was a day I would normally want to forget forever, but I
can't, because it's the first time I realized how much I loved you.  Of course
I couldn't admit it to anyone; I couldn't even admit it truthfully to myself.
But your mother knew, Scully.  She knew right away, and she stuck with me;
with us.

"Today is a celebration, my love, and I couldn't have gone through this
without your support and your understanding.  Oh, Dane, I can't imagine any
other woman in the world putting up with all that I put you through.  And yet
you did.  You do.  You always will, because you love me.  Unconditionally.
And God knows, I do know what a gift that is.  

"Today is a celebration!  I love you, Dana Katherine Scully-Mulder.  I love
you, and our son, and our child to be.  I have finally come to a place in my
life when I can say life is a celebration!

"Today is a celebration of my coming of age.  It may have taken an extra
twenty-five years to get to this point, but it was worth it.  Thank you, my
friends, and my family.  Thank you for all you do for me.  I love you all."

After a moment or two of stunned silence, joyous shouts of "Mazel tov!" could
be heard all throughout the sanctuary.  

Today, Fox Mulder was a man.

~~~~~
End of Part 6/6

And to Daniel,
 I love you my son, my son.

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